How can I tell if I am tight or loose down there?

i am a very petite girl (small & skinny) but I know that does not mean my vagina is small too... How can I tell? I've only had sex once & don't use toys... So hopefully it's not loose.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • When you put ONE finger in can you feel your walls? Yes? Tight

    When you put two fingers in can you feel your walls? Barely? a little loose

    Insecure about your PC muscles or the tightness of you vagina? Try keagals. Keagals are a PC vaginal exercise performed by repeatedly contracting your PC muscles (muscles used to hold or release urine) You can either contract and hold. Depending on your PC strength you may be able to hold for 30- 45 seconds) Beginners can usually only do it for about 10. If you do this every night for at least 15 minutes by 3 months you'll be pretty snug down there..

  • Sex and toys won't make you loose. Menopause, genetics, vaginal childbirth, and aging make you loose.

    If you want a tigher vagina, do kegels exercises.

  • Ask someone to put in both there hands up there and clap, if they can clap then your loose.

    • ha

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've been with a girl who was loose. The first time I went to rub her, 3 of my fingers literally got sucked into her. I wasn't even trying to penetrate her, she just kind of moved back on my fingers and bam, 3 were in her. And she wasn't at capacity even then, and I've got big hands. I could fist her, for real, without really any stretching or work-up.

    Since I would guess that inserting more than 2 fingers requires at least a bit of work on your part, I'd say you don't have anything to worry about. On the other hand, if you masturbate with a coke bottle, you might be loose.

    • Wow OK I don't think I have anything to worry about then lol my hands are really small & I can fit 2, sometimes 3 (if I stretch it) inside. How did that women get so loose? from having kids or something?

    • No, it was just random genetics. She'd never had children.

    • That sucks. Was she a big woman?

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  • I doubt it's lose since vagina tissue is elastic and forms around whatever is in it. If you can stick two fingers in and it doesn't feel tight around the fingers you might be lose but keep in mind guy fingers are thicker so if it's not super tight around your two fingers it doesn't mean it's really lose.

    Most guys have a penis girth that is just under or just over the girth of a toilet paper roll (the tp tube test lol) believe it or not so if you can fit something as thick as a toilet paper tube up your vagina without it feeling tight then you're probably lose.

    • Oh yeah just so everybody knows I'm talking about a toilet paper roll that has all the paper off already and is just the card board tube.

    • Lol thanks... Well I can fit 3 fingers inside a toilet paper roll, I can fit 3 in my vagina sometimes, but it hurts a bit, I usually just put 1 or 2 in.

    • I doubt you have anything to worry about then. It isn't just tightness that gets guys excited either it's being so close to a girl you can smell her and feel her soft skin and lots of stuff lol...

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  • I think a vagina can be very stretchy, even for masturbating with cans, bottles, or big dildos, and still not be loose. Loose is when it stays slack and open all the time. In reality, many vaginas can stretch a whole lot and still not be loose. To be sure, some may not feel as tight, but that doesn't mean they are loose. Most actually don't feel tight. I've had intercourse with about 26 females. About 4 or 5 felt smaller, about 5 were at the bigger end of the spectrum, and all the rest felt regular. Tightness is totally over rated. I'd much prefer to have sexual experiences with a woman that can accommodate big sex toys.

  • maybe you are tight

  • if you aren't flapping like elephant ears, you should be okay

    • Why would a girl flap if she's loose? I'm talking about the size of the hole, not the lips.

    • LMFAO. I don't think she understands what loose means.