Okay, so I am going to be very honest because I think there are a lot of girls out there just wanting to know. First of all, it is ok to be nervous, you should be nervous your doing things for the first time. The idea of doing things with a boy that people have made seem so "dirty" is making you feel horrified and guilty but at the same time you know it is time to move forward with your boyfriend (he may be just as nervous as you!). If you love this boy and TRUST him then even though you may be nervous (I mean REALLY nervous) it is okay. At points you will be like OH GOD what is he doing to me? Just relax and try not to tense up, tell yourself to relax and just go with it. If you don't know what to do back, just look at him sweetly and say, "I don't how...show me." He will appreciate your honesty and he will feel EXTREMELY special that you trust him enough to say so. However, here are a few tips to help you get on your way:
Once your boyfriend has commited to you he doesn't want the chase anymore he loves you and wants to know that you love him back. He wants to be smiled at, kissed by you and touched by you. Boys can be very insecure and need reassurance that their girlfriend cares about them or they will definitely move on to someone else. Tell him that you love him when he least expects it, tell him he looks hot, compliment is talents and let him know how happy you are to be with him. When the making out begins take short breaks in between and give him a smile, look deep into his eyes, take a deep breath and exhale while staring at him intensely he will know you like what he is doing. Rub your hands up and down his back, put your hands on his ass, play with the hair on the back of his head all while kissing. Pull away slowly, cuddle in his arms and then slowly turn into his neck and kiss his neck...GUYS LOVE THIS! Whisper in his ear,"I'm so happy. etc" blow softly in his ear..now you will have him crazy. Expect for him to get a hard on, don"t be embarrassed trust me he is already knowing you know and he is already feeling the embarrasment himself be happy that you turn him on this way. Push your body tightly against his, if you feel comfortable put your hand on it and rub up and down softly (he will appreciate it). Be ready, he is going to want to start touching you too. He may touch your breasts or start rubbing his hand between your legs, just relax...if you relax you will enjoy it and your feelings will grow intense. He may want to unbotton your pants and start touching (fingering) your vagina. You will definitely feel very uncomfortable mentally with this but that is natural again just relax noone gets pregnant by a finger! Just keep kissing and touching him. He may want you to enter his pants and stroke his penis. The best way to explain this is to tell you to grab it like a handle and easily rub your hand back and forth on it. Don't squeeze to hard, it will hurt him. This is the last step before getting into sex.