What do guys like while making out?
When me and my boyfriend make out I know what really turns me on and stuff but I'm not exactly sure what to do to make him just as happy. Where do... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
This has been asked a lot recently.
The best thing I can tell you is that all guys are different. Try your hands in a new place. if they are normaly on his back, go for his hair.
If he's that kind of guy, you can go for a kiss/bite of the neck. Some guys get a real kick out of it. But mostly, pay attention to what he does when you try something new. Does he let you, or does he move your hand away? If he moves your hand. safe bet is he isn't wild about where it was.
(and feel free to flat out ask him what he wants. when the time is right.)
What Guys Said 5
I like it when she runs her hands through my hair. She also sometimes stops running them through my hair and takes hand fulls of it at lightly pulls on it. Also since I like all that vampire type stuff, it turns me on when she bites my neck. Also when she wraps her legs around me and presses really hard up against my d**k.
Your best bet would be to just ask.
Try something new like nibbling on his ear or kissing him on the neck and ask him softly "how does thet feel'' or " do you like that ".
For me the ear ususally does it. Its a REALLY big turn on when a girl licks or nibbles on my ear while we make out. It just drives me freaking crazy!
I love it when a girl presses into me and rubs her hands through my hair and down my back. But what turns me on the most? Well, you'd be amazed how sensitive our d***s are - seriously, even if it gets looked at it can go hard lol. So if you're making out, if you're comfortable with it, a boy will go just crazy if you go anywhere near his d*** and especially if you rub it. Start outside the trousers, then rub the tummy and naval, then rub outside the underwear (at this stage he will be crazy). Then go for the real thing inside the underwear - do anything to it, it won't matter at this stage because he'll be crazy and don't underestimate how you can simulate him by rolling his balls in your fingers ;) He will be so hard now it'll be like a rock. If he wants your t*ts, let him, but make sure to keep him under control - he'll be fine with your domination :) He will likely want to rub your p**** as well so just sit back and enjoy :D
I know it's typical for guys to grab girls' butt's, but I actually really like when my girl grabs mine. It's a huge turn on. And when she's on top and she grinds up on my d***. Its amazing.
What Girls Said 4
I've actually found a few places that really work on my guy. I know he loves his ears nibbled (at the top), earlobes sucked on and soft whispers in his ear. I mean, then again who doesn't enjoy these few things? lol. Also, sucking/nibbling gently at his neck or collarbone. My guy for some reason loves his wrists sucked on or bit. If I don't feel like doing that I'll hold them over his head and pin him. I know of a lot of guys that love being dominated so maybe if you're on top and lightly restrain him you'll turn him on?
As for my hands, I'll tangle them up in his hair if something feels amazing, so he knows what's feeling good at the time:) Other times, I'll run them down his spine, which makes him arch his back towards me, or caress the back of his neck. Overall, this really depends on the your guy and what mood he's in at the time. Hope this helped:)
My boyfriend likes me to bite his lips and neck and kiss around his face and neck before going in for "the makeout" haha. Also try rubbing his thigh or dick and get him hard but that might be a little much depending on you. He always does new things to me and always asks me if I think it feels good or if I'm comfortable...you need to just ask your boyfriend what he likes or try doing things you would like done to you and ask if it feels good?
Okay, so I am going to be very honest because I think there are a lot of girls out there just wanting to know. First of all, it is ok to be nervous, you should be nervous your doing things for the first time. The idea of doing things with a boy that people have made seem so "dirty" is making you feel horrified and guilty but at the same time you know it is time to move forward with your boyfriend (he may be just as nervous as you!). If you love this boy and TRUST him then even though you may be nervous (I mean REALLY nervous) it is okay. At points you will be like OH GOD what is he doing to me? Just relax and try not to tense up, tell yourself to relax and just go with it. If you don't know what to do back, just look at him sweetly and say, "I don't how...show me." He will appreciate your honesty and he will feel EXTREMELY special that you trust him enough to say so. However, here are a few tips to help you get on your way:
Once your boyfriend has commited to you he doesn't want the chase anymore he loves you and wants to know that you love him back. He wants to be smiled at, kissed by you and touched by you. Boys can be very insecure and need reassurance that their girlfriend cares about them or they will definitely move on to someone else. Tell him that you love him when he least expects it, tell him he looks hot, compliment is talents and let him know how happy you are to be with him. When the making out begins take short breaks in between and give him a smile, look deep into his eyes, take a deep breath and exhale while staring at him intensely he will know you like what he is doing. Rub your hands up and down his back, put your hands on his ass, play with the hair on the back of his head all while kissing. Pull away slowly, cuddle in his arms and then slowly turn into his neck and kiss his neck...GUYS LOVE THIS! Whisper in his ear,"I'm so happy. etc" blow softly in his ear..now you will have him crazy. Expect for him to get a hard on, don"t be embarrassed trust me he is already knowing you know and he is already feeling the embarrasment himself be happy that you turn him on this way. Push your body tightly against his, if you feel comfortable put your hand on it and rub up and down softly (he will appreciate it). Be ready, he is going to want to start touching you too. He may touch your breasts or start rubbing his hand between your legs, just relax...if you relax you will enjoy it and your feelings will grow intense. He may want to unbotton your pants and start touching (fingering) your vagina. You will definitely feel very uncomfortable mentally with this but that is natural again just relax noone gets pregnant by a finger! Just keep kissing and touching him. He may want you to enter his pants and stroke his penis. The best way to explain this is to tell you to grab it like a handle and easily rub your hand back and forth on it. Don't squeeze to hard, it will hurt him. This is the last step before getting into sex.
Well so far, in the many people I've dated
I found three spots guys like
1.Touch the back of their neck
2.Let your hand rest on his thigh
3.Bite his lip/neck [gently, unless he indicates otherwise]
But yeah, all guys are different
and the worst he could say is "try it here instead"