Do you never kiss with tongue? why or why not?

[Anonymous]

so my husband and I have been together for 2 years and we don't usually kiss, if we do kiss it is only with the lips. Yesterday I kissed with the tongue, because I thought it would turn him on and want him to have sex with me. He was really alarmed that I did that and really shocked. He said my name like it was the most shocking absurd thing I've ever done. So like, I should go back to no tongue kissing. I guess does it mean that if you do no tongue kissing you are being more classy?

[MrWizard]

I guess everyone has their own likes/turn ons and dislikes/turn offs, but using your tongue is pretty common. I enjoyed learning from a few make out scenes in the moving "Pyromaniac's Love Story" in my youth. Even after a decade of being married we still might get a little french action for a morning good bye kiss with my wife! Open communication is the best way to learn and grow with your spouse, and while it is good to be open to try new things with your partner, it is also good to respect their limits. It is a balancing act. Many guys will be very excited if their girl wants to try something new that gets her going.

[Thiezz]

> I guess does it mean that if you do no tongue kissing you are being more classy?

If that's the case then I hereby renounce being classy, because that's a price I'm not willing to pay :p

I guess there are some people out there who actually don't like tongue. It seems you found one.

[cun7n1nja]

"If that's the case then I hereby renounce being classy, because that's a price I'm not willing to pay :p" LOL RIGHT? I mean I don't want a tongue in my mouth ALL the time, but mixing it up is keeeey. =P

[Anonymous]

weirdness. I thought everyone moved onto french kissing after mouth kissing. I didn't realize there were people who didn't french kiss after the first few months. I mean I can understand if it's a religious/cultural reason but otherwise its' weird to me.

[lananoel]

Hmm... I have to be really turned on to tongue kiss.. I prefer on the lips with some chewing. Its not necessarily.. hm.. I just like it more.. can't explain it

[zeldalover]

Oh that's a bit weird. Infact really weird I have not got a clue what to say.

[themastaplan]

wtf...sounds like he is a prude...?

[Asker]

or he just doesn't want me to kiss with tongue because it makes me less classy to him.

[themastaplan]

youre his wife. you don't have to be "classy" for him behind closed doors...actually I'm surprised he isn't more supportive of that behind closed doors

[NMMan]

What?

[icanbme]

I'm going out on a limb and guessing you and him were virgins before the wedding and your 1st kiss was at the alter? if so I think he may think french kissing is something dirty. talk to him about it.

[amameninas]

I don't tongue kiss much either. I however do intensely in as a part of oral sex. She does not complain.

[Asker]

oh ok... I see

[Aksel]

And it's your husband? Are you Christians?

Coz he seriously reminds me of Ned Flanders!

[Asker]

he's not a Christian but I am.

[rocksongwriter]

"He said my name like it was the most shocking absurd thing I've ever done."

So he quasi rebuked you for showing your affection? What kind of person is this guy?!

[taster]

Huh! I thought everyone french kissed?...is oral off the table as well?...altho female organs are cleaner than mouth... (:

[Malcom_Reynolds]

I kiss with tongue, but I guess it might not be for everyone. I just prefer it that way. If he prefers without then I guess you should go back to no tongue.

[RyanRyanson]

How's the sex?

[Asker]

it's OK, why?

[RyanRyanson]

I would imagine that a man who was aghast at tongue kissing might not be willing to do anything fun in bed.

[RealMenFly]

Maybe he's never heard of it before. LOL

[Asker]

no he's done it before with his ex.

[RealMenFly]

Maybe he isn't attracted to you.

[Asker]

or he thinks I'm too classy for that kind of stuff

[RealMenFly]

Lol.