First time sex can be awkward especially if it is with someone you have known for a while.. actually regardless of whether you know someone well or not. That is completely normal. There is a lot of pressure to perform and just butterflies, nervousness and what not. As you become more comfortable with the situation, and the more you do it, the more you will learn what is enjoyable for each other and it will get better.
In some instances, sex can be very passionate and sensual. It all depends on the level of comfort and attraction. I think you should openly discuss with your partner your feelings. I believe a friendship can still be forged after being intimate should you decide not to pursue a long term relationship.0 0 0 0relax...its completely okay to feel like this...i couldn't get a orgasm for a long time when I first started to go out with my boyfriend. it frustrated him and he thought I wasn't sexaully attracted to him. its different now...i learnt how to be calm with him and we have a great time. intially things are weird because its all new...you guys were friends...friends and lovers are two different things. just relax and let things unfold..
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You now realize, and to all virgins, sit up and take notice... a first time need not be as amazing as you hear depicted on TV or in movies or what have you. It can be clumsy and awkward. Trying to control your body... trying to find your way around your partner's body. It's not "wrong" at all but just because there are no butterflies or fireworks or anything doesn't make it wrong.
Sometimes, over time, it actually gets better and that's not such a bad thing.0 0 0 0There have been studies that women will enjoy and be able to orgasm once they fall in love with the person. It's normal that the first time is not going to be amazing because you don't know what turns her on. Once you communicate with her and know how she ticks, you will have a better time.
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0 1It already has affected it, I can bet you she's internalizing over it as well. Just don't try to think ahead by 10 steps. Scale it back down to 1.
It's normal to feel nervous about what happened, because you care for each other as well as each others opinion of yourself. Give it some time before you start getting concerned.0 0 0 0
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