after a girl gives one hand job she's probably likely to say yes to other guys. but when a girl is unexperienced and hasn't given head before it can be pretty intimidating sticking a huge d*** down your throat. and plus if you don't do it right, it hits your gag reflexes and makes you feel like your about to barf every time you go down, its the worst feeling in the world. but if you do it right (stick your tongue out and breath through your mouth) its not so bad and the texture is nice and I love the reaction I get out of the guy. I used to refuse to do it but once I actually got in a relationship and had feelings for him and tried it once, I liked it. I actually love it now. that doesn't really answer your question but that's from a girls perspective. I think it depends on how in love with you she is, how hot the guy is, how much fun she likes to have, and how experienced she is. that's a good question, you should do a poll.
i wouldn't touch a guys d*** unless I was in love with him, and was in a mutually respectful relationship. I don't have any abastract desire to touch a dicl. and I don't feel any sense of obligation towards some random guys d***.. its something that would just happen naturally from experiencing things with him.. and getting closer to him.. just all of him.
why not just explore and have some fun
of course, explore, ave fun, get to know each other intimately.. its only fun, if I'm in love. otherwise it just feels like I'm being molested, or I'm molesting. just how I am.
I'll do both, it usually ends up being a bj because I know he likes it better. But I tend to reserve it for times when we're feeling very intimate or I want to give him a treat, because I want to keep it special. It is also more tiring than sex, so I have to want to do something awesome for him
prolly cause, like most women, you just lie there and make him do all the work. M I RITE GUYZ?! Kidding :P
Seriously, it IS tiring on the jaw.
lol well if I didn't like the guy, of course I'd want to make him do all the work! But since I do really like my boyfriend, I want to take care of him, too :P and yeah, it is quite tiring. At least when guys go down on girls, you don't have to have such control over your jaw that you don't catch your teeth on something sensitive!
Never met a girl who didn't wanted to give a handjob, met one who didn't like oral, giving or receiving.
I agree. I never dated a girl for more than a few weeks who wasn't into handjobs. It seemed pretty much "natural" for them to give handjobs. But this was when I was in college, and I was looking for "nice" girls who didn't jump into bed with just any guy. One especially nice girl even kept Kleenex and K-Y jelly underneath her sofa. She was a virgin, but she knew guys liked this, and she felt like pleasing them this way when they had been good to her (nice evening, enjoyable date, etc.). I understand this better now, but at that time it seemed a little odd to me. But I truly enjoyed it. We dated for three years. It was wonderful. We never had penetrative sex.
Not common enough for me to have gotten either. lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would not touch his d*** at all unless I'm married to him. The risk of stds are so high and I'm really prude. I'd rather him jack off as much as he needs so that I wouldn't have to do it for him. But most girls I know only do blow jobs if they've been in a long relationship with them and really like them, and if a girls willing to give you one with out a long relationship or even going out with her then she's trashy and you should not do it anyways.
Hand job if I'm seeing the guy. Only get the Blow job once I'm exclusive with them (sorry guys but I like to know what's going on down there first before I commit.) One thing I don't get though... why do girls insist on spitting? I just think it spoils the whole moment of giving oral and plus, it REALLY doesn't taste bad. meh, just something I 've been thinking about
isnt that the point pleasuring the other person, and if you enjoy pleaseing someone it will deffinently show and he or she will feel it too, and swallowing is just as much as a turn on for me to know you can make them reach orgasm, I like the taste my self , wether iam ginving a blow job or lickin out a girl right after a guy pulls out
I've actually never given a handjob, it just seems silly because no matter how good you are at it the guy is always going to be better at it. I like giving blowjobs though. I only gave my first one recently. Its really fun and super sexy :) its not that I wouldn't do a handjob its just that I'm not very confident in my abilities... would prefer him to show me how first or put his hand over mine or something
you should show each other what to you like by masturbating in front of each other and takin their hand to show em what feels good to you, then lay back and let em pleasure you
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