Yeah I think the pleasure in it is trying to out "do" the other and to make each other get to a point of they can't concentrate and they end up just taking what you give. I agree as well with you. When she's giving a really good bj, how the f*ck can you concentrate on anything but those awesome lips and sexy wet tongue doing who knows what to your c*ck. It's hard enough for me not to make too much noise or even take it far less try something. But then I'm like, she must be enjoying what I'm doing, and I want to make her feel as good as I'm feeling right now, so then I'll suck the hell out of her clit or practically devour her puss while burrying my fingers deep inside of her (puss/anus), and spreading those cheaks to get every inch of her puss on my tongue or in my mouth until she just can't help but stop sucking and start moaning and gripping me or whatever she has to to take what I'm giving her.
That's the fun in it. The exchange of pleasure and trying to control yourself and to try and make the other person feel such intense pleasure, more so then you can give from just straight intercourse of penis in vag/ass that one of you finally can't stand it and either cums HARD or throws the other around to start the f*cking. It is usually a good way for foreplay, but if you want (and it is fun to do) to have it just a very intimate experience that will lead to a very good orgasm.
Well to be honest the pleasure for both thing isn't really the main reason why I enjoy it. I like it because I love having her in that position on top of me, and also because it's an amazing feeling when I make her come and she has me in her mouth. It's also a major turn on to be doing her so well that she has to stop sucking me and just enjoy it
Start slow, as the pleasure and excitement builds it gets interesting. My boyfriend starts going crazy trying to make me cum, which excites me and I start going crazy and sucking harder. It's fun to see who can push the other off the edge first.
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The 69 really is more of a "give and take", you don't actually have a simultaneous exchange, usually you're enjoying yourself, take a moment to yourself, then try to work back into it; it's kind of like a competition to do all you can while being very distracted but one you shouldn't be afraid to lose. ;)
Exactly my problem!
any success so far?
Go slow, that way you don't buck each other off rhythm.
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