How long can a guy go without sex?

How long can a guy go without sex? It has been months since the last time my husband and I had sex and I have been thinking he's getting it elsewhere since we haven't had it and usually guys need it.
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  • Definitely could be a physiological thing. Just guessing that he's in his 40's or above...An honest conversation is needed. It could be that he has a mistress, but I wouldn't assume that.

    Is this a big change from prior patterns? Men and women vary in their level of sexual desire with some people in both groups being relatively indifferent to sex.

    Either way, just got to ask him how he's doing, how you guys are doing, and so forth.

  • It's not like guys need sex as we need water. So it doesn't mean your husband is cheating on you. He may be, I don't know but based on not having sex, you can not jump to such a bad conclusion. I don't know how long you have been married but after a while obviously sex gets routine, which is not appealing. Try to spice it up, without being pushy. Guys are very visual, try a nice lingerie. cents.

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  • My boyfriend is 32 we been together for 2 and a half Years and we don't have sex I have tried everything even getting naked in front of him and I have even went to bed naked and I try playing with him and nothing he don't want to be bothered he's not affectionate he cuddles a pillow and humps the bed and makes moaning noises and it bothers me but I don't know what to do

    • Not to mention he don't work and it's been months since we had sex or anything

    • I do try talking to him and he shuts down he don't like to talk

  • Men who act like they need sex everyday all day to survive... should realize that relationships with women are focused on their true feelings, feeling wanted and understood, if you master this area in a woman's life then you will definitely get all the sex you want, js

  • DOES NOT MEAN HE'S CHEATING!!!!!!! maybe he just needs a little excitement. Also of people get disinterested if they are stressed out too. try talking to him, maybe something is wrong at work?

  • Hmm funny thing here...i was just talking to a guy whos married and cheats on his wife cause he says he doesn't get any....id start investigating

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  • Definitely could be a physiological thing. Just guessing that he's in his 40's or above... An honest conversation is needed. It could be that he has a mistress, but I wouldn't assume that.

    Is this a big change from prior patterns? Men and women vary in their level of sexual desire with some people in both groups being relatively indifferent to sex.

    Either way, just got to ask him how he's doing, how you guys are doing, and so forth.

  • I'm still a virgin. Does that count?

    • Are you still a virgin 1 year on?

    • More than one year, try 27 years.

  • Well, if not from another person, he might well be getting it from his hand. It works every time. A man can go only so long without an orgasm.

  • I am the 28 year old virgin. After waiting as long as I have, a few months sounds like peanuts.

  • Umm I have waited 16 years... I think your husband can wait a couple months sorry hun.

    • Of course you have waited 16 years you are only 17.

    • Hahahaaha

  • i got a friend who is married and his wife doesn't put out either. he tries nut she isn't ever in the mood. but if your tryin to do him and he isn't in the mood just try and spice s**t up a lil. I mean that's what I would want

  • i went a year beat that : P

  • Sweetheart, he's moved on.

  • Sometimes men cannot always perform the way they would like. Maybe just talk with him and see what he says as there could be an underlying medical reason.

  • intiate...

  • A guy can get used to a woman, and still love that woman. It my be a good thing because that means he respects you. Its not all about sex.

  • Hi everyone
    My hubby and i haven't done it for almost 3 weeks now. I had menses and had the flu now only coughing. But he is not interested. Should i be worried?

  • Well 6 hours is about the max for me. , But someone as beautiful as yourself. Your husband is probably a stupid man n, not wanting to have sex everyday with you. I know I want to have sex everyday with you.

    • Thank you! That does a lot for the ego. I am happy to say that we are separated and headed for divorce. I now have a guy who can't get enough of me. I guess this one isn't stupid. thanx again.

  • Hey I'm with 65 yr old an at first he was loving now he acts like he doesn't ever want have sex with me again

  • Well I think it depends on the type of guy

  • Why not just have sex? Or at least blow the man?