Do I play with it first with my tongue. Do I go in and out or move my hands all around?
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Most guys think that when fingering a girl they have to stick they're finger in there and that's all there is to it. But for the majority of the time that is not the case. It feel amazing, when guys rub really hard and fast on the clit. try looking at a diagram of the vag so you know exactly where it is. most guys think they know but they are really getting it wrong. here's a link link
after doing that for a little bit, try doing a little switching between fingering and rub the clit. then just finger faster harder and deeper. with out hurting her. lol hop this helps