Does sex ever make the guy have feelings for the girl?

When not in a relationship.

I know they say never to sleep with a guy hoping it will make him like you because it wont, but maybe it does happen? do you think so?

Can a guy develop stronger feelings for a girl after having sex with her, when they aren't bf/gf?

Updates:
This guy liked me before we had sex, but he lives 7hrs away in my old state and he's gotten somewhat distant so I wondering if when we had sex his feelings could have gotten stronger and relit the flame?

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  • No, a guy will not develop feelings because of sex.

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    • Seriously? Not even a good guy?

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    • He liked me before we had sex...

      And it was actually my idea. I'm the one who told him I wanted to do it.

What Guys Said 6

  • Nope. If he doesn't have feelings for the girl before, he won't have them after.

    Some guys mistake gratitude for regular sex for actually liking a woman, but they usually correct that mistake, and eventually stop making it.

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  • It highly depends on the guy. I have a friend (I am reluctant to say he is my friend) who is a total womanizer. He will use a girl for sex and he will have no emotional attachment at all.

    Let's put it this way: if a guy is going to develop feelings for you, then he will develop them BEFORE the two of you get naked together.

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  • I tend to grow more fond of the people I am having sex with. This doesn't generally change the nature of the relationship, however.

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  • You answered your own question, honey. "I know they say never to sleep with a guy hoping it will make him like you because it wont"

    You've learned a lesson. don't forget it.

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  • I think that maybe you anwsered your own question. Generally if a guy is really into you he won't be distant...especially after sex. I'd say don't wait around for this one.

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  • Hell yes, if it's good sex.

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What Girls Said 6

  • a guy liked me got me drunk (was ment to be a one nite stand)

    now we live together and have a kid and are in love. though I av to say its not the best start to a relationship so be careful.

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    • Yeah but he liked you before you had sex. Has nothing to do with the question.

    • I met him at the bar where he got me drunk

    • Actually her response does help cause this guy I'm talking about had feelings for me before sex too..i was just wanting to know if it would make them stronger..

  • I think for a little while the thought of what yall did will keep his blood pumping and imagination going. So I think yes he might could develope stronger feelings but that does not mean they will be true blue feelings that you as a girl would have from the experience..

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  • hmm well yes and no. yes because you aallowing them to go inside you and no because thye just want to f*** and get it over with it.

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  • There seems to be a lot of controversy on this subject. And I would like to add something to my last answer. Please send me a message and I will respond.

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  • I think both male and female people need more than sex to have feelings and even more to want a relationship. The reason it seems like it only goes one way is that females tend to be choosier about who they sleep with and often won't do it just out of attraction.

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  • Men and women have different views on casual sex, if you have genuine feelings for someone you shouldn't be having casual sex with them, it will make you feel like shit.
    I think if a guy is to develop feelings for a girl it's gonna be due to the non sexual time spent together, not the sex... sex to a man is a simple need, its more emotional to a woman... weather we like it or not. If you're looking to develop a relationship from it then u need to spend time with them, non sexy time. If that doesn't happen, keep moving. Many relationships develop from a fling, or a friends with benefits situation, or a one night stand... anything can happen. If its the right person you will click no matter what the situation

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