Would you get turned off if she didn't feel smooth... I shave but it still feels rough & doesn't take long for stubble to grow. Also what if her labia is big & you can feel it & have to move them out the way to finger her, is that a turn off? Or what if she wasn't wet... Is that a turn off?
Some of us want the feel of a WOMAN, not a little girl!
I guess as you grow to a certain point so do your ... "lips"
That seems normal. Why fight it? I had no real preference so I take what is bestowed upon my fingers and tongue, and I like it. Any way it would have been presented to me would be a turn on really.
As for not being wet, we're human. We have limitations. If she's not wet a little lubracant can work wonders. No big deal.
Never in a million years.
Hair. For the real adult look.
Oh she helped me shave in preparation for my vasectomy. But I didn't have to shave myself totally. Sorry for the rant but shaving someone smooth for the look of a nine year old doesn't impress me. Not at all.
None of what you mentioned is a turn off. I prefer bush over stubble. Waxing is the best, nothing beats the wax, but it's still no big deal. Big lips are no problem. Obviously, he'd prefer wet, but he will assume that you are attracted to him because you're letting him touch you. Like the other guy said, as long as he doesn't find a penis, he'll be looking for a shady spot.