This one is for the guys who like to get their prostate massaged.

[Chrissy1986]

OK so my husband brought up that he'd like to have his prostate massaged, and I'm all for doing it for him. The problem here is I've never done it before, so I was wondering if you have any tips on how to give maximum pleasure with this? is there anything specific I should know?

[Ugliness]

Hey who doesn't like to get their prostate massaged?

If you have one.

As for tips, the usual is find out what he likes. Doesn't take much. Don't need to be rough.

That's the idea of many massages - no need to be rough. This is no exception.

Short fingernail helps. And of course so there's no mistake from the younger crowd,

massaging the prostate is best done from the -- inside -- if you know what I mean.

If you've never done it before, it won't kill you. Trust me. And you can always wash your hands later.

[Chrissy1986]

lol I was planning on doing it from the inside, I'm not scared of this I just want to give him maximum pleasure

[Anonymous]

Do a prostate massage at the same time you do a blow job or hand job. Insert your pointer finger into his anus is in a series of pushes while your stroking him to just beyond the first knuckle. Curl your finger in come here movements while you were stroking him. When he comes it will make each contractions more intense and very pleasurable. You should trim the nail on the finger you are going to use

[Opinion Owner]

Don't forget to use lube.

[Belgie]

Best Answer. That's practically a step by step guide.

[Chrissy1986]

well that was very specific thank you

[smilesgirl]

Do a litttle research on google. In some more rare instances it can actually be dangerous for him with certain conditions. Wouldn't hurt to be sure you cover all your bases (well, his) before you get into it, so to speak. :) Otherwise, have fun! :)

[Anonymous]

I find lots and lots of lube and a vibrating toy can realy make things exciting

[Anonymous]

All I know is that you should have a lot of lube and go slow.

[Ugliness]

re: update saying the rest you know nothing about.

OK fine and good. But none of us here wanted it said that we held back any information we thought you should know. It wasn't clear from the message that you knew you had to work from the inside.

[Chrissy1986]

i am sorry for not including that bit

[Belgie]

Use lube and go slow and keep your fingernail trimmed.

[Spermicide]

that sounds g.ay

[Belgie]

Right, because a married man getting his wife to bring him to orgasm is gay. What sort of messed up homophobic dictionary are you using?

[moloz]

It's a troll.

[Spermicide]

I'm using a Webster dicrionary. It's Enlish not homophobic. It's not my butthole, I don't really care what you want to stick up it. That's pretty much and I also am Under a bridge. Got a decent wi-fi connection.

[Ugliness]

Face it guys, as I see my copy of "Anal Pleasure and Health" is out on the desk (how did it get there?) I'm reminded of its words (paraphrasing) that your... butt... is nothing to fear or despise, and it can bring pleasure regardless of your sexual orientation (or even gender) if you toss your outdated preconceptions aside. Then there's me, I'm even into rimming (licking) and scat (dealing with the - end result - in various kinky ways. Nothing to be afraid of at all.