Can I force myself to get horny?

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin. I never get horny, I never feel full aroused. I have had a blood test and my testosterone is fine. I have never masturbated. When I've tried, I just go soft. Should I force myself to masturbate in order to ignite my sex drive. I've never made my self cum. my girlfriend thinks because I Haven't done "anything", I don't know what I'm missing, hence my lack of interest in sex. I'm not not gay, by the way.

[l-hedoniste]

Have you considered that perhaps you're asexual? You're in good health, you're postadolescent, you don't masturbate to *anything*. You don't sound severely repressed; there's nothing about you that says anti-sex, you just seem uninterested. Maybe you're one of those rare people who simply don't have sexual interests. It happens.

Unless you have some deep sexual interests you're not telling us, the best idea would be to reconsider and renegotiate this relationship. If your girl wants sex, you might not be the guy to give it to her. Nobody's fault, but she should be free to get what she wants.

[Wayne83]

You sound exactly like a female friend of mines. Your girlfriend is right. Since you have not done anything you don't know what you are missing. You just don't crave or desire sex. The same way you can't get hard she told me she has never gotten wet. I was like what!? Mission Impossible! All it took was lots of talking and explaining what it is to have a sexual desire and be horny. Not before long I could get her aroused by seductively talking to her. Sexual arousal is a mindset. Just have some talks with your girlfriend. Ask her how she feels and let her know you want to know every detail.

[Asker]

Thanks. yeah I think she's righ too. But I used to have a sex drive. we talk about my issues but it doesn't work.

[jadejess]

My ex-boyfriend had this problem and I tried to help with it for 6 years. Eventually, he did get help-the problem was depression and some sexual abuse he suffered when he was young and then repressed. I would suggest a psychologist visit, that's what finally helped my ex. It may take awhile but at least that way you can find out the problem. Good luck.

[Hazel-Nutty]

i was like that untill I founda guy that could really turn me on, for one no offence but your girlfriend might be bad at giving blowies and such I don't no, two once I got into the game its like it happens to me a fair amount and p*rn even arouses me (certain p*rn) you just need to find something to ignite it or someone

[deathnote]

Hehehe...

[Asker]

thanks. you're very helpfull

[deathnote]

LOOOOL! OK in all seriousness, you need to be attracted to someone and not think too much about getting horny, it just happends, nothing more I can say :)

[cjwright79]

Try putting some tabasco on your eggs.

Eat more raw foods -- sushi,. oysters.

More delicious juicy steaks.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

wtf you're like 25

[Asker]

thanks, very helpfull

[Brandan_Cromartie]

You may genuinely be asexual.

Nothing is wrong with you; it happens.

[sunmonster]

Touch yourself- seriously force yourself.

[Asker]

really? can you come if you force it?

[Anonymous]

VIAGRA, buddy

[Anonymous]

Sad story..Do you need to watch p*rn?

[Asker]

No, I've never done p*rn. I feel like I'm missing.

[Opinion Owner]

You need p*rn.

[Anonymous]

Do you suffer from depression?

[Asker]

i think I suffer from mild depressions, yes. I know this can contribute

[Opinion Owner]

You know right :)