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Do guys actually enjoy girls giving them handjobs?

I find it hard to give a guy a good handjob. When I give blowjobs I quite often pick up on signals such as moans or tensing of his legs etc when I'm doing a good job. However when I give guys handjobs I rarely get the aame reaction/ signals :( I largely think its because every guy is so different in what they think feels good but is it just me? Guys do you tend to be more reactive to blowjobs? Ie because its not something you can do yourself do you even really enjoy a girl giving you a handjob?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I find that a good handjob is not a fast one. Some people just want to get it over with or feel that the guy wants to get it fast and hard. I am 50 and bi so I enjoy handjobs from anyone. When you do a handjob take your time. Explore his d***, do not be rough on it, pay attention to the head, have lots of lubricant, slide you hand up and down the shaft, let your finger tips gently feel the top of the penis, tease it gently with your finger tips, circling the head and then slowly run your fingers and only your finger tips up and done the shaft. Every once in awhile I've it a few quick pumps withm you hand or hands. then slow down and go back to lightly touching it and teasing it. You will know my his hip movements and his bearthing if you are getting close. I gave a handjob to another guy awhile ago. it lasted about 50 minutes and when we were done he said that it was the best he ever got. Hope this helps Dave

  • Guys are more reactionary to blowjobs. But I still love handjobs. You can get away with doing handjobs in more places, she can talk dirty to him while she's going at it, she can use two hands and twist it in a way that a guy can't di to himself. I personally love them but not every guy is the same.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • The first time I gave my boyfriend a handjob I literally could sense NO reaction from him... he came though.

    The next time I gave him a handjob, I decided to go down and swallow so we wouldn't make a mess and his reaction was SO obvious. I don't know if it was because I was closer or if I halfway gave him a blowjob but I could feel him tensing up and breathing harder...

    I definitely think there's a difference for them, but they're open to receiving either because hey... it's sex. They're not going to turn it down if it's going to make them orgasm.

  • Gave my ex a handjob, I was so scared the whole time that I would hurt him, especially with the faces he was making like his lids were closed half way and he would purse his lips and arch his eyebrows, he looked drunk but he wasn't. He did come though so that's good I guess.

  • I gave my Boyfriend several HJ's a few days ago, and it seemed like he enjoyed it a lot. It was my first time even, and I think it went pretty well. Watching his face in pleasure was great.

    Definitely going to do that again!

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  • No, I don't care for handjobs. Most (all) guys have plenty of self-practice, so we're most likely better at giving ourselves a handjob that a girl. We know what we like, after all.

    I'd rather have a footjob, most guys can't give themselves those. If the girl has nice legs, it's way kinkier.

  • If it's done right - yes!

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  • I will stop you if you try to give me a hj.. I hate them. Now mixing it is with something else is a different story but a hj by itself.. no thx. ill go do it myself.

  • it depends on the guy

    yes we tend to react more to blowjobs then hand job from sucking licking and etc

    yes sometimes we want hand jobs and sometimes we want blow jobs

  • I like HJ's, but Bjs are much better.

  • YES! I love hjs and don't care for bjs

  • Not really. I haven't found a woman who could do it right. I pretty much need to control the tempo when it's time to pop. Flip side is that I'm never going to accidently lose it.

  • We give ourselves HJ's all the time, we can't give ourselves BJ's. I would just go with the BJ's

  • I do ^^ Its even better when its in their mouth ;P

  • I live a girl giving me a nice slow teasing the head he skin. Please please don’t go so fast and hard. Spot in it and twist the shaft holding the dick right behind the head. Constantly twist the shaft only a few degrees on each Side

  • Yes I like that very much I done know why it is even more better if it is surprise

  • Yes, although some guys are self conscious about their penis size. I never had a handjob that I did not like or enjoy, except for one time when the girl's Father came home early and I caught my penis in my zipper as raced to put it away while it was erect. My first one was when I was just going into high school and my girlfriend was a little younger. She really liked to see boys' penises and play with them. It seemed ot be almost an obsession, but I enjoyed it and she had fun.

  • A blowjob is more intimate. A girl taking you in her mouth is accepting you in the most intimate way possible.
    A handjob is fun in another sense. If the girl has technique, so much the better here.
    But both work...
    My partner doesn't agree to blow-jobs (due to cultural reasons). But if I had a choice, a BJ would turn me on more. So I make do with HJs.

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