-Takes 2 who could have prevented the pregnancy in the first place
THEN they think that a woman having an abortion should be based solely on the guys desire
Both the girl and guy should do their part in regards to pregnancy prevention. He needs to wear a condom and the girl needs to take the pill, get the shot, use a female condom or get an IUD or implant.
Well, we feel the pressure and the rubbing on the genitals when we masturbate, but masturbation doesn't make up for sex does it? So that argument is not valid.
And for the record, there is a difference.
About the argument that you wouldn't feel the difference... You didn't even try it and can comment about the difference and say that the people that did try it are false in saying that there is a difference? That sounds illogical.
Plus, about your comments:
Of course we would use condoms. Even though it sort of "dampens" the experience, it is better than catching a disease or getting the girl pregnant. We are not arguing about that. We are on the same page. Just because we complain about condoms doesn't mean we don't use them, so please stop saying "Guys just like to winge about things & they are selfish. Do you ever stop and think what's it's like for a woman to be on birth contol & all the things she has to put up with?"
I once heard a great way to illustrate the point. Remember, you asked why men don't like condoms, so that's the question I'll answer.
Try stroking your arm with your opposite hand. Remember the feeling. Now try covering your arm with just a thin film of plastic, for example the type used to conserve food. Stroke your plastic covered arm with your opposite hand. Now please, tell me there's no difference.
I imagine because they suck ass. It's like eating a nice tender steak with rubber covering your tongue. However, I see them as a necessary evil. If a guy is irresponsible enough to refuses to wear a condom, don't have sex with him.
I'll use a condom if the girl wants to, of course, or if I'm with someone new. But, for me, I don't like them because I can't feel how wet she is on my penis when I'm inside her.
Umm.. what is so bad is that my skin is in contact with a piece of rubber instead of a girl's wonderful wet vagina tissue made just right to stimulate my penis like crazy. Even lots of girls on this site say sex without a condom feels better because it does! It isn't that most guys won't use a condom it's just that it isn't as good a feeling if we do use it. Personally I've went a long time without sex (almost two years) and I don't intend to do it again until I find a girl that wants to have a kid and will have sex without a condom because sex with a condom isn't that great, I would only want to use one if I wasn't totally comfortable with the girl.
its just not the same feeling. my guy has a harder time getting off when we have to use a condom. and it doesn't feel as good for me either for some reason. he discribed it as when you have to wear latex gloves but the are one size to small
He'll I don't like it when guys use condoms either. Its not enjoyable to be f***ed by a peice of latex. But I don't see why there's a fuss about it because if your in a commuted relTionship it isn't a problem
They say it feel better without a condom on but most men come really fast with them on anyway so um apparently it doesn't feel that bad lol Men just want something to complain about. If it's so bad to have sex with a condom then move onto the next one and good luck with your new sti she's going to give you.