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Do you think it's disrespectful if your parents have sex in the room next to you?

Okay so I hate my stepmom a lot but whatever my question isn't about that. Recently she has been trying for a baby. She is not mother material AT ALL. She doesn't realize the hard work it takes to raise a child and even my dad thinks she needed to change her attitude before she could have any but I guess somehow she forced him into trying. Okay whatever..I hear every time they have sex because our walls are so thin and their bed is super squeeky. Like its okay whatever do whatever they want but today they came home saw me and talked to me I was in my room which is right next to theirs and they closed the door and they only do that when they're gonna do it so obvious and I heard them and they knew I was right there. There are a freaking billion hours in the day. It was afternoon they couldve waited until I went to bed. Like seriously I wanted to puke because of how disgusted I was. I found it extremely rude to do that when I was next door and swear she was being loud unpurpose. I was so disgusted and pissed off. Does anyone else find this rude?
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  • I think that you already have a negative view and feelings towards your step mom so of course this is going to bug you more than usual. They may not be aware of how sound echoes in your house or they could have just got caught up in the moment and not realized how loud they were being. Regardless you should talk to your dad. I know it will be awkward but unless you want to keep hearing it then you need to put your foot down. Let him know that you respect his business and what he does but that you would appreciate if he respects you back and is more quieter or does it when you aren't around. Honestly its his house though, I think its time for you to move out on your own or live with another relative.

  • i felt the same way when I was little like during my puberty days I had found out what sex was and my parents were doing it all the time and we lived in a small house so I also felt disrespected and just annoyed and disgusted. like as parents you should set an example for your kids you know and have some maturity, and if you can't do that then buy a bigger a house.

    i totally know how you feel you just have to ignore it I guess or may be go out for a walk put your ipod on blast music, its way to awkward to bring it up and confront them, I personally could never do it.

    • I got really mad because if I did the same thing, even if I was married to the guy my dad would get upset. I got really pissed off and left the house without telling them and when he called me I told him what he did was rude and disgusting but he still has no idea what I'm talking about or he is just playing dum. He was really mad because I was saying mean things to him but I didn't tell him exactly what he did but when he gets home I'm gonna get yellled at. Not looking forward to that :/

    • awww just shrug it off and let it go say whatever you just needed fresh air. it would be worse to see them not 'be in love' and then you will feel guilty in the future. just focus on getting into a college of your dreams and you can move out :D

    • No I don't like them being in love because I don't like her that's why it disturbs me even more. If it were my mom I wouldn't be as upset. He married not because he loved her and he told me this and he promised me he would leave her but he never did and that's what annoys me. You can tell that he doesn't love her as much as she loves him and I think he only stays with her because its easier/ I can't wait to move out of this hell hole. She even drove her mother out because she's such a bitch

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  • Oh man that happened to me awhile back. I turn out the lights at like 10, but I don't go to sleep 'til like 1 am. I was up on my comp and I hear noises and sh*t. The only thing separating my mom's room and mine is her bathroom. My sister's dad spent the night and I put two and two together.

    link From 00:19 is my reaction x.x

    I don't think it's disrespectful, but it was like "wow...you know I'm not sleep, I'm never sleep..I can hear everything" >.>

    • Hahahahahahah yeahh.. That's funny XD

Most Helpful Guys

  • It seems they wanting to to join in thinking you
    hearing them and know what they doing you get soaking
    wet and horny maybe stepmom might want to eat your oussy

  • Hmm... well my parents don't even sleep in the same room so I wouldn't know what that's like... it does sound uncomfortable though haha.

    • Hahah you're lucky

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  • honestly if there paying rent...then they can do whatever they want in their room...

    Just let your dad know how you feel about it... he probably can't read minds...and letting him know will make him more aware of what he is about to do before he does it. Its not rude until they know how you feel about it.

    • HEY THIS IS GREAT ADVICE...I speak the truth! and yet I get downrated. not once but twice...How lovely.

    • True

    • Yeah its good advice. It's just hard to bring up but I did sorta bring it up

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  • It's their house they can do what they want, why don't you move out

    • He won't let me move out until I'm 18

  • Why are you rating down people who are telling you the truth?

    First of all I don't think its disrespectful at all to have sex in the in the room next to you because its THEIR house, not yours. Secondly, its none of your business whether they have sex or not, get earplugs if you don't want to hear, you foolish girl. Because one day it'll happen to you.

    • SHUT THE F*** UP BITCH! DIFFERRENT PEOPLE HANDLE DIFFERENT SITUATIONS DIFFERENTLY. THIS COULD SCARE ME FOR LIFE BECAUSE I AM A SENSITIVE PERSON. ITS MY F***ING QUESTION I CAN RATE IT AS I WANT. EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO RATE PEOPLE DOWN IF THEY WANT ITS A FREE WEBSITE. THERE IS NO TRUTH ITS OPNION DUMBASS

    • Wow such big letters for such a small little girl. I see how intelligent you are, you will get far in life. You can rate me down all you want child. But I won't hear my parents having sex next door tonight ;)

    • hahah cliche

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  • Yeah, kick them out.

    Wait, is it their house?

    • ahaha DUH! Lol

  • Sure it's creepy when you here your parents having sex but it is not disrespectful or rude. Can't you turn the TV on loud or listen to an MP3 player? That is what I did before I moved out.

    • I still know what they're doing. I think its disrespectful. I'm sure they know I hear them. They could wait a few more hours to make a baby. They wouldn't like it if I had sex with my boyfriend when they;re there. It's rude

  • No not at all deal with it

  • yes, yes I do..like who wants to hear their sex noises? I sure dont

    • Yep and the worse part is I hear them every single time. It's worse when they know there's a possiblity of me hearing like she said she doesn't even like sex. She had all of yesterday when I wasn't home. I hate that it happens all the time. It's not like they're super horny. They can wait a few more hours to make a babby like I just heard my soon to be sibling getting conceived how disturbing is that

  • But I bet if you as adult in your parents house have a boyfriend or girlfriend and want to have sex in the house, it would be disrespectful, right? Bs double standards. I don't know how you think it's okay and to "just deal with it" that your parents are your parents and they can have sex while you're there trying to sleep or whatever you're doing. But when you call them out for it, it's disrespectful and oh I can do what I want. I've confronted college friends who've I lived with and thought it was okay like you can do so when I'm not there let me know if you plan to and no don't say you can't help it if you're in the moment. But what about stopping in the moment to put a condom on? Oh right "I was in the moment". I'm just saying BE CONSIDERATE for the people who live around you. I understand sex is a natural thing but ik when I do it I don't do it when people are around. Doesn't help when you go to another room especially if you're right next to their room. They know you're gonna hear and y'all know what y'all be doin. Can't be disrespectful If I'm confronting you on how it makes me feel. But yea let your children do in the house while you're there and you'll be upset. So cut it out with the bs. This actually effects people and children who are well aware of their parents having sex while their in the house. It's rude and inconsiderate, if I'm up and If I'm sleep it doesn't matter. Same shit if you are in the room blasting loud music and making a bunch of noise when other people are there. BE CONSIDERATE.

  • I hate when that happens. I think they should do it at other times when we aren't there or something. I hate it!

  • It is disgusting to you and I totally understand that. But while they are paying rent it isn't your choice or place to say anything.

    • I think it is. If something is bothering me I think I should let them know. It's terrible to keep to bottled up inside just like they express their feelings to me. Just because they own the house doesn't mean they can't respect me

  • YES; I couldn't belive it the first time it happened to me. But it was the last, because I was so scared that my dad was having back problems again, I got up and yelled Dad, "What's wrong why are you screaming?" I was so young.

    • Hahaha omg :/

    • I know lol. After that they never woke me up again with their uhhhm actions.

    • LUCCKKYY!

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