He likes me but doesn't want a relationship?

Is it possible that a guy really likes you but doesn't want a relationship so he tries to avoid you? I know this guy who likes me, I am 100% sure of it. I know because of the way he looks at me and the way he watches me when he thinks I'm not looking, among other reasons. Well we almost hooked up but we didnt, he said the condom broke but I get the feeling he didn't want to. . I gave him my number but he doesn't call, even though I know he likes me. He told me he wanted to hang out again, but nothing. He was always saying he was shy, but I have made all the moves so far. So is it possible he is avoiding me because he likes me a lot but doesn't want a realtionship?
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  • Yes, there are definitely people who simply don't want relationships. They may be going through a period of their life where they don't think they are suitable for one, or maybe they've recently gotten out of a bad relationship and are still recovering from it, or whatever. But, sure, there are people who simply don't want that commitment, or know that other things in their life prevent them from living up to such a commitment, at least, for the time being.

    The guy could also have some issue with sex. Maybe it's been a while and he's worried about performing, or not being able to please you, or whatever. Maybe he has had some traumatic experience. Who knows?

    IMO, you should talk to him about it and find out how he feels. You shouldn't be getting into a relationship with someone you can't talk to about the relationship anyway.

  • Yeah it's possible.

    Some guys are shy, maybe he's shy.

    • But still he had the chance to hook up with me, and didnt? It might be that he didn't have a condom but wouldn't he just call me up for another go at it? Plus, I knocked on his door, chatted with him for a few minutes and said we should hang out again. He said yea one of these days. So I asked if I could keep his number and he said yes, then I gave him mine. I did all the work. At what point is he supposed to make a move?

    • Maybe he respects you and wants to take things slow?

    • Maybe he is a player or a ma Whore?

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  • I remember your previous question. When you guys tried to hook up in the car, it sounded like a sort of tease that he wasn't happy about. If a guy likes you, you know it. Just because you "think" you know for sure doesn't always ring true. If he was into you, he'd get in touch and initiate contact, no matter how shy.

    I wasn't aware that avoidance was one of the top 10 signs that a guy liked you... :/

    • Its not that I'm aware of. He isn't really avoiding me, I just couldn't think of a better word to use. Besides, I just want a convenient hook up. So it has me thinking that even if he did call, maybe I shouldn't go there.

  • He probably doesn't want to Into sex too soon. Or he may have other reasons. I was in the same situation, we kisses. it was intense. He even said I won't let you go don't go. But we can't be together and he doesn't want FWB. He said he cares for me(he does). But at this second I am thinkingabout ending the "friendship" what do you think?

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  • Probably likes you but he doesn't know how to act or react to you so he just get nervous and avoids having to deal with it by avoiding you.