Very interesting to see the different ways in which the girls repond and the guys rspond! If there was a girl involved here (as the non-initiating party) we could have called it rape!
Someone below has made the point rightly below that guys have long used women for sex, and now the shoe is on the other foot!
I think it's important (i) not to get into things we didn't bargain for, or don't want -- regardless of how tempting it is, regardless of how good looking the other side is and regardless of whether we are a guy or a girl (ii) if you're not serious about someone, it's best to avoid the kind of situations that could lead to this -- being in a room together with nobody else around, and the possible of one party pushing things too far, and the other succumbing (iii) it's a fact that a woman's sex drive varies at different parts of the month; she might feel very differently about you even if YOU had approached her five days earlier or later (iv) frankly, I would have felt quite used, if this was something I didn't intend to get into. Even if a man can use force/coercion/allurement to lure a woman into bed, a woman can use seduction. Both of which are unfair. While we could have justified this 10,000 years ago, on grounds of it being important for the propagation of the species, I think we need to treat people with more respect in the early 21st century.0 2 0 2Yes - she used you for sex
after you answered her question in so many ways = you were OK with that and
your body used hers as well
Surprised? Sometimes you just don't know what's inside another ... and their talents.0 0 0 0
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She didn't use you. Friends sometimes have sex with friends, it's pretty common. As long as no one's feelings are hurts, there's no harm done. The real interesting thing will be what happens next time you see her...
0 2 3 4friends don't have sex with friends, f*** buddies have sex with friends
you don't want to f*** your frineds
Dudeman, it happens, and not necessarily within the FB context.
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1 9Haha, a close female friend?
Well, the sh*t is out of the bag now. She's only been your 'close friend' for so long, because she wanted that d*ck of yours.
You poor thing.0 1 0 1No... She had sex with you, I'm fairly certain THAT went down, but she didn't use you.
0 0 0 0Why are people saying she did? =/ It was casual sex, you even acknowledged it was casual sex. But... If she was using you she'd have to have been keeping you around for that reason only; she brought you over cos she wanted to f*** you, that's clear, but I mean... She's your friend.
Usually men are the ones that use women for sex... but now that the roles are reversed, how does it feel like to be used?
0 0 0 1I don't see any issue with it. She wanted to have sex with you and she did it. Probably, you wanted to have sex with her too. there is no harm. It's quite normal and quite common. Friends with benefits ;))
0 0 0 0Niceeee dude who cares if she used you for sex... be a man and be proud you got some.
1 0 3 3I am really sorry you had to go through this horrible experience...
2 0 1 2i know how would anybody cope
My question: Does it matter? That's f***ing awesome! You just wanted to brag.
2 0 1 2There are counseling services you can call to help you through this traumatic experience.
link0 1 0 1what exactly are you complaining about?
1 4 2 3Ha that's funny you live in Japan too. Are you Japanese or gaijin?
im English I just live in japan now
yes she used you for sex. I don't think you are regretfull lol
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