Why does she want me to wear a condom during a bj?

[Anonymous]

I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months now and we've only recently been getting more physical than kissing. she gave me a handjob once while we were lying side by side and she uhh caught my shot in between her hands then. now she said she was willing to give me a blowjob but only if I wear a condom. why is that? I shower before every time I see her, but maybe it's that? ha ha do I come too much that she doesn't want me to come on her or in her mouth? ladies have you ever done this before? I personally think it wouldn't be very pleasurable for any party involved

[Shpongolia]

She has spermphobia most likely. At least she wasn't wearing rubber gloves when she touched your c0ck.

I was once with this girl who was a real control freak, and she wouldn't even HJ me unless I was wearing a condom. I told her to get the f*** out of my car, because I deserved better than her.

Maybe you could volunteer to do more sensual things to her and allow her to open up to you more.

[govhuck2]

because you can give and recieve sexually transmitted diseases through a bj. stds like herpes, aids, and a few others. Check it out online and you will see for yourself. iit doesn't feel as good with a condom on, but it's up to you

[peace-love-couture]

Unless you have both been tested for STDs & HIV/AIDS, she basically has every right to protect her health.

But talk to her. Talking to us won't do anything. I'd only ever become sexual with a guy when in a committed relationship with him & after he gets tested for HIV/AIDS & STDs so the condom makes no sense in my personal whatever.

[NellziiBabii]

Omg! Jesus Christ! You and here can get so many infections from giving/getting head in all sexual acts except fingering you must wear protection.

65 people get die from swine flu and everyone puts on a mask

Millions of people die and get serious health issues from hiv/aids/stis and no one puts on a condom?

[wavelengths]

" 65 people get die from swine flu and everyone puts on a mask Millions of people die and get serious health issues from hiv/aids/stis and no one puts on a condom?" great line

[DishLady]

You have to ask her as it's a very personal choice. Most people use protection to stave off STD. If you've had that talk, are both exclusive, and neither of you has a history of STD, then it's possibly a choice she's making for some other reason.

[Aries11w]

Talk to her, if she is worries about disease, both get tested. I wouldn't give a blowjob unless I knew he was def clean.

[gotc147]

I got a "mini" blowjob while wearing a condom once (long story), Honest to God I felt NOTHING while she was down there.

[invisible_monster]

because she thinks that sucking your d*** would give her herpes or some other lovely disease. Or maybe she doesn't like come in her mouth...but I think she just needs to suck it up ;)

[chriiistelkelly]

i have no experience in handjobs or blowjobs, but I think it was the reason you said. she doesn't want it to be messy, lol. she wants to keep it clean. and doesn't want come all over her. I guess some girls are like that.

[rotinaj10]

I would rather just not get a blow job if a condom was involved. Stick to the handy condom free.

[Caustic_Fox]

tell her tough sh*t, the only time it would make sense to wear a condom while getting a blowjob is a random hookup

[Anonymous]

std's

[Anonymous]

It might not be as pleasurable, but it is safer. A number of STDs can be passed through oral sex and she's protecting herself.

At the same time, maybe she is afraid you'll come in her mouth. A lot of girls really don't like that.

Have you asked her?

[Anonymous]

I don't know about other girls,but I never give a blowjob with condom.It was sick.The guy can't feel the pleasure as the the layer of the condom cover his d***.She probably very concern about hygience too much.I don't do that and won't ever do that.