I feel like I should have been born a girl?

I feel like I should have been born a girl and it makes me very up set and I can't seem to tell my family. I feel like if I tell my family they'll get mad at me. My dad doesn't take things well either. I'm close to my twin sister, but I still don't want to tell her. I'm thinking of telling them, but I don't know what to say
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  • well we all wish for somethings, some people wish for them to been born into a wealthy family, others wish for a better body, while others wish for weirder things like..."a bigger gardening tool".

    Everyone has insecurities, everyone has different things about them that we wish we can change/improve on. I believe if you really desire something, then nothing can stand in your way except you. If you want to become a female, there is surgery and other ways to change that, which of course is expensive, but if you work and save up, in time you could probably pay for it. Now regarding your family, your dad is probably going to be the most upset one. I have a guy friend who sounds exactly like a female, ( to the point he sounds like my ex). That's his natural voice and he wants to be a female, I refer to him as a female to be polite. So if I were you, I would tell your dad a little later down the road while you gather ideas and plans to achieve your goal, during that time, I suggest you think about how your gonna break it to him. =) I wish you the best of luck!

Most Helpful Girls

  • So either you're trolling or your pink because you identify as a girl. Either way, I'll answer. You have to be who you are. Everyone spends so much damn time judging and giving people crap. But what's worse is that we buy into it and follow the world's stupid rules. I think that no matter who or what you are, you should be allowed to be it (so long as it's not hurting anyone). Not being who you are only hurts yourself. You shouldn't sacrifice your own happiness just so O=you can fit into other people's little boxes. If your family truly loves you, they will understand and accept you for who you are. Maybe it'll be awkward, maybe they won't know what to say, but obviously you want to tell them or you wouldn't have posted this question. Is this feeling ever going to go away? Are you ever going to feel comfortable with hiding yourself from your family? If you're not, then stop driving yourself crazy over it and just do it.

  • But...

    Ohhh I get it...

    That's why you have your character a female on girlsaskguys.

    clever.

    But if that's what you want...there's a way to change things..I mean we were taught to love ourselves the way we are...but if you don't love your self...do what you want to do.

  • Well have you told anyone? First off you shouldn't become upset this is you and you can't change how you are. You should tell someone who you trust, this person should not judge you, look down on you, or try to tell you to get over it.

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