Guys, ever hooked up with a female friend and regretted it?

why? I hooked up with a guy I've been friends with for three years recently. he's always known I like him, but nothing happened til now. he's told a mutual friend that it was a "stupid thing for him to do." we've talked since but not as much as before...
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Listen to me.

    Guys do not respect girls who just put out and spread their legs or put a guy's **** in her mouth when he is not even her boyfriend. Yes, they will take advantage of a girl who is easy. Because naturally, they want sex. But 9/10 times, they will not take a girl like that seriously, they will not introduce her to mom, they will not represent her as someone they're really excited about and deeply care about to their friends, and she probably will not meet important people in his life. If he did, then you would have a greater place in his life than a f*** buddy.

    I have so many male friends and I've heard them talk about girls like you whom they screw around and hook up with, but will not ever consider you as a potential girlfriend and serious relationship material. Then a girl who is truly correct for them always seems to come along and light up his life, totally overshining the f*** buddy. Because the other girl is bringing more to the table than an easy piece of ass. This is exactly why girls shouldn't participate in friends with benefits.

    • i get that. but it had been 3 years that we've not done ANYTHING physical...and then it all changed. like, we'd been drinking but it's not like we'd never been drunk together before either...

    • it doesn't matter. it's a defining statement of the type of female you are. Not only that, but it would make things awkward if there was a woman in his life whom he really cares about and you, someone who he just screwed around with, is there in his face.

    • I wouldn't listen too whom ever wrote all of that in one hand there right about guys jot respectings skuts but yakl were friends for 3 years with nothing, nit sure what they nean when they keep ssyibg "the kind of girl you are" as if they coukd know a person off a paragraph of text, they seem like the kind of person who gets into a relationship and then jjst manipulates the other unto thinking there a bad person and that slmehow random person here thinks there a saint lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yea I have. We went out with some other friends for drinks and I went back to her house as I live to far away to walk or catch a cab. We were both pretty drunk and basically jumped on each other as soon as we were in the house. The morning after was one of the most awkward moments of my life. I didn't consider her any less of a friend or anything, just felt a bit embarrased. As a result, for a few weeks after I put some distance between us just to let that awkward feeling go away. She may have thought it was something she did but it was just me trying to get my head around why I did it. The good news is that everything is back to normal now and if anything our friendship is stronger than it was before.

    • so are you just not into her then? and it was solely the alcohol that caused the hook-up?

    • she is an attractive girl. However, we had been friends for so long it just felt awkward after taking it to the next level.

  • I tried to hook up with a real close female friend a long time ago, but she never saw me as boyfriend material. Because I connected with her in a way I have never connected with anybody else in my life. I guess she just didn't see it that way.

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  • Never, ever regretted it. Making out is fun and hot!

  • Nah I never really did that. I know I would regret it if I did, because I would rather have a friendship with some people than a sexual relationship

    • "I would rather have a friendship with some people than a sexual relationship"? because you're not attracted to them sexually? then why would a hook-up happen in the first place?

    • Well, I've had sex with people I'm not attracted to sexually- it's weird. But with my friends, I have been attracted to some of them sexually- but I wouldn't want to destroy the friendship. Sex has a great way of ruining things.

    • gotcha. thx. :)

  • ive kinda, I've fingered and food with my friend, she regrets it but I don't though I so want to eat her out and put my **** in her.

    im serious but she's got a boyfriend even though we fooled around when she was with her bf