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Fingering a Virgin?

I'm a virgin and what I don't get is how guys can finger a virgin girl, and the girl finds it pleasurable although her hymen is intact. Wouldn't it hurt? I masturbate through clitoral stimulation but I've never been fingered not even by myself. I wanted to wait after I had sex for the first time to try it out, but some of the questions on here sparked some curiosity. Girls: What does it feel like, and did you like it better with your hymen, without, or was it pretty much the same? Thanks in advance!

Updates:
Now that I think about it, I don't think my hymen is intact because I'm very active. I've got nothing to worry about now lol thanks! But just for the girls out there that might still have theirs, would it hurt them?

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  • Hey! I'm a 22 year old virgin and I let my guy finger me, flick at my clit, and both were done pretty rough. But we were both getting into it pretty good. We just used my natural lube...the clitoral stimulation however was EXTREMELY intense. I will not lie. The fingering was very very nice. My hymen is still intact. But when I got home, I did have a burning sensation when I went to go use the restroom. It had also turned very very Red in my vaginal area. The clitoris had became very swollen. But it was only a temporary reaction. I had also had my first orgasm that night as well. My advice: Just let him know how ya feel. Keep him informed, or otherwise he won't know what's going on and get very carried away with his emotions and hurt you. Accidentally of course. If it's hurting you, then tell him to either stop immidiately, or go VERY slowly and eventually get a little faster. Hoped my expierience helped ya out. Have fun and be safe! ;)

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  • Actually, your hymen is most likely already gone. We're too active modernly to keep them for very long. So it won't affect anything.

  • I love it, I dont do it to myself either but it feels really good. I was gonna say it feels similar to sex but you haven't had it before. Its a way explore yourself without loosing your virginity. I find it very relaxing once its over. You will know how you prefer it once you have tried it, don't stress just relax and enjoy.

  • most girls hymens aren't intact whether it be through sports, tampons or other stuff so being a virgin and getting fingered is no biggie its the same most of the time

  • It all depends on the way you like it and the way the guy does it. I think it feels pretty good no matter what. I have never done it to myself but... The first time I got fingered I was a virgin. It's kind of a shock at first because you don't know what to expect but it doesn't hurt and once you are used to it. You get a lot of pleasure out of it.

  • Lol,girl,i totally understand ya.I'm a virgin too,and did not fingered myself yet.I even let my boy play with my clit,but not more :)

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