How long is a blow job supposed to last for an average guy? How do I make myself enjoy giving a blow job?

My boyfriend us so hard to get off. I get so tired to get him off that way. Like I am just exhausted after a while. How long is a blow job supposed to last for an average guy? How do I make myself enjoy giving a blow job?
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  • Well, maybe you should work a little bit on your technique:

    First of all, it's best to surprise your guy with a blow job, as random sex is just much hotter. In addition to that the approach is very important. It's best not to say anything, at first. Just go right for his pants, stroke him on the outside for a while, when he gets hard, unzip, and pull his big guy out of there!

    By now you should be on your knees or sitting on the bed or a couch. Going to your knees is the best, because it shows subservience to your man. He'll eat it up. Worship his **** and he'll worship you back, trust me. Look up at him with your eyes and make your eyes sparkly with desire. This is your **** now and you're going to suck every last drop of come out of there.

    Tease him a bit with the tip of our tongue, slide it along the head and the sides of the penis. Grab his penis with one hand firmly and slide the penile skin up and down. He'll gasp with pleasure. It's time to slowly begin sucking on his penis' head.

    Start slowly and devilishly with just the head, be gentle and apply modest pressure. Now, it's time to really get it going.

    Push more and more of his penis shaft towards the back of your throat, increase pressure slightly, and slowly ramp up your speed. More detailed tips link Watch his face to determine how aroused he is becoming. You want him to go into a moderate zone of constant pleasure before kicking up your speed and finishing him off completely.

    • He was like pounding his d*** in my mouth. Is that normal?

    • Not unless you want him to. If you don't enjoy it then it's not okay, some guys do like to "skull fuck", while getting head, but it is a sign of disrespect if he hasn't gotten permission from you first.

  • A Blowjob can be quick, or take some times.. As it depends on your techniques, And to make it more enjoyable for you, erm all I can think is make him have a flavored condom on.

    • True (about flavored condoms). Thanks for the good idea.

    • condoms during BJs suck.. But its all about what the girl wants.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Or loverk. A little sex tech first. We always produce semen at a slow rate. When we are aroused production increases to load the seminal vesicles and prostate for ejaculation. My perception is that a slow lotiony hand job of 15 minutes or so fully loads the prostate. That "gotta cum" feeling comes both from sexual excitement and a message to the brain that the gun is loaded.

    When we ejaculate, the prostate chamber cycles like a one cylinder pump, expelling semen through the outer sphincter on the "compression stroke" and then reloadiing from the seminal vescicles on the decompression stroke. This cycle continues and weakens as the reload gets smaller. The most satisfying orgasm comes from the most full reloads. I may have had 6 crunchers followed by trailers.

    The loading foreplay should be maybe 10 to 20 minutes and vigorous enough to keep us fully hard but not short of breath. A lotion handjob should not tire you at all. The BJ should be vigorous sucking, stroking and licking and last only a few minutes if he is "fully loaded" and ejaculation only 30 seconds. Light sucking and slower stroking while he comes.

    Your enjoyment should come from pleasing your lover but also from playing his sexuality like an instrument. When I am down on my lover, the contractions, responses, sounds and fluids are enjoyment in themselves.

  • 5, 10, 15 mins, depends on you and him, don't worry about it

    • I do, I want him to be happy!

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  • Mix it up between your mouth and your hand. This way you won't get so tired so quickly and I'm sure he won't complain.

  • Sometimes they last 5 minutes, sometimes they last 15 minutes.

    If you don't enjoy it don't do it.

    • Np! I want to make him happy. I like it. It's just so hard after a while.

  • i depends on you, how you do it. if you are good at it then it can be last in 8-10 mins.

    • Should he be thrusting his **** in my mouth? I feel like I am choking?

    • NO. he should NOT!

    • Uh, yeah, the first time my (now ex) boyfriend tried thrusting his dick in my mouth, I told him to screw off.