I think I'm a nympho and going crazy?

[Anonymous]

This may sound crazy, but I think I'm a nympho... I think/want sex all the time. Every week of every day of every hour of every minute of every second I think about sex. OK maybe not that much but It's pretty close. I've been with 2 guys, both hookups and I kind of like hooking up with no strings attached. With me being a nympho I'm scared I won't be able to control myself and in a few years I'll have racked up multiple sex partners and then my future boyfriend or husband will be disgusted that I was with so many guys. But I like having sex with different guys, it kind of keeps things interesting. I want a boyfriend but at the same time I'm scared of commitment and I can't find anyone decent. I'm going crazy over this I think... I told my shrink but she kind of ignored me because I'm young. What should I do? I've been told I'm worse than a guy.. (as in I'm hornier than guys.) AHHHHHHHHHHHH! I'm getting in the mood writing this...

[Bruce]

Quite worrying so much about such a stupid thing...one caution, just protect yourself from STD and pregnancy...

A once married woman told me she had more than 100 partners WHEN she was married and she destroyed her marriage...well, THAT IS a concern...you are single, and men only WISH they could have as many women as they want...Women and especially attractive women can have men and sex when and how they choose...and if they are discreet, no harm, no foul.

My wife told me that 30 men had screwed her...and guess what...SO WHAT ? That doesn't impact me in any way unless I have a fragile ego or some worry about that kind of thing.

My advice and my 'caution' is this: ..Do not tell anybody anything, about what you did previously, BUT if you chose to do so, don't tell it to some immature, fragile ego guy that can't hack the fact that you are an experienced woman that knows about men and sex, and have had many partners.

A emotionally mature man will only "envy" your experience and not HATE you or RESENT you for it...because he only WISHES he had that much experience with women.

[zickzack]

Ok, this are the right words about this.

[Asker]

A lot of guys think virgins are so amazing and that a girl with a good number of sex partners is a used up washed up whore. I find it disturbing. Especially since men can have multiple sex partners and no one says a damn thing about it. Damn double standards... I hate them!

[Anonymous]

haha well that's a very interesting time to be getting in the mood, but what ever floats your boat. I would say maybe thinking of alike a causal sex partner, kinda like a booty call but you mainly go to that one person, not so much a dating thing.

[Asker]

That would be cool, only problem. There is no one! lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh trust me there someone out there like that. The really problem is, is just keeping it that way

[Asker]

No I have tried, it's hard to even get laid in this town.

[Opinion Owner]

That sucks. Well at least masturbation is always an option but I would at least keep high hopes on finding someone like that. Most people usually do when they are not looking.

[Asker]

Like I stated in a comment: masturbation does nothing for me. Nothing compares to the real thing!

[zickzack]

Masturbation doesn`t enjoy really, it `s only a valve/outlet, more not.

[MinaCC]

Listen Hun, I am also a FN. There are a couple of options, mostly unethical! Hooking up with the same guy/booty call does not work if he's single. Its too convoluted and they quite honestly can't handle it (no matter what they say). Married guys have the best stamina because apparently once you're sex is no longer allowed or some shite (already prefaced unethical). Besides you dont have to worry about them calling you all times of night to see if you're alone, etc.. etc.. etc. Bit of a warning to that is COPS Are The Worst, yes they cheat.. a lot, but they have more time on their hands so their stalker potential becomes immediate, plus they're not very picky so you MUST Be.

[Misty_04]

Just do what makes you happy, if having casual relationships does that then there is nothing wrong with it. I do not see how it can be hard to find a man to kindly help out.

[Asker]

I don't know. It's like I'm cursed or something. I mean luckily I could get some but I was dry as the Sahara for a good 4 months.

[Misty_04]

Unless you live in a town populated by lesbians it should be easy :)

[Asker]

It really isn't.

[Anonymous]

If you're saying masturbation doesn't do anything, because it can't compare to the real thing, why not use a vibrator? Or any other kinds of toys? Might help

[Asker]

First I would need a job and credit card to buy them. There are no sex shops around here and I'm not about to go online and ring up sex toys on her charge card!

[Coffinspire]

Wait. How old are you?

[Asker]

That's a secret.

[GodzillaMan]

UNDER 18! UNDER 18!

[Bruce]

Most women I know, find their finger tips work better than any vibrator you can buy...that includes most women I have been with and those I have watched on line.

[Asker]

NOTHING compares to the real thing. I love penis soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. It is one of the greatest things on earth.

[Coffinspire]

I disagree bruce, I love my vibrator.

[Asker]

Yeah I would imagine the vibrator is much better!

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

... So you're positive you don't have a penis?

[Asker]

I am pretty sure sir. Wait... OK I just checked and no penis.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

If you care about what people think you should try starting an official relationship with someone, basically free sex when you want it. Otherwise just find someone to be f*** buddies with.

[Asker]

Official relationship... there is no one. And like I state above: committment probs. F*** buddies... there is no one. Slim pickings here... it's hard to even get laid.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Do you have any guys you would consider part of your friend zone? If so, 9/10 of them would have no problem shagging you.

[Asker]

Yeah because that anon chick is damn hot!

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

For all I know you could be. Now answer me :p

[Asker]

Yeah but you're telling me I can get laid when you don't even know what I look like or who I am. And no I don't have many friends. I scared them all away because I asked them to f*** I propose.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

You'd be surprised. Girls who are uglier than some guys still stand a better chance of being laid. Meh. Just be less forward. If a guy gets into you, play along with it, if he was just looking for a pull then ask if he wants to be f*** buddies.

[Asker]

wow... OK. That makes me feel so much better about myself.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

If you didn't want to know then you shouldn't have asked.

[Asker]

You don't make any sense. By the way is your profile picture of Cradle of Filth?

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Does anything make any sense? Psychology, boom. Ehh. I have no idea, it was just some album artwork that I liked.

[Asker]

Yeah an album from the band Cradle of Filth? :)

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Could have been a remix of something of theirs but I doubt it. I seem to remember this artwork came from a dubstep song.

[Asker]

fml I'm going to die now.

[Coffinspire]

You'll be fine. I've been with 6 guys and my current boyfriend hates me sometimes because I want sex multiple times every day (sometimes I skip a day but it's rare) it's normal we're young.

[Asker]

Actually womens libido goes up as she gets older. Mens decline in their mid 30s.

[Coffinspire]

I'm aware that women are in their prime in their 30s but you're young and have raging hormones that's what I'm getting at.

[Asker]

No I'm a nympho. Do you not know what that is?

[Coffinspire]

Of course I do I'm not a retard, I'm saying even though I think, talk and have sex EVERY DAY I am not even considered a nympho (sex addict)

[Asker]

Then what exactly do you consider one? Because that sounds like one to me.

[Coffinspire]

Nymphos have like orgys and multiple partners A DAY. That's what I consider a nympho.

[Asker]

No. A nympho is a woman hornier than usual women. I've had many guys tell me I'm a nympho. Women who do what you said are just stupid idiotic whores.

[Coffinspire]

Women who do as I've described are hornier than the usual women. Having sex everyday is a healthy sexual relationship in my opinion.

[Asker]

No the women you described are immoral and confused. They obviously had problems growing up because that isn't normal. Most people do not have sex everyday you must be a nympho like me.

[NothingGoldCanStay]

So is this post basically a massive paragraph about how you are a sex maniac?

I think you are right in that guys will find you less attractive since you plan on sleeping with so many men. Why don't you just masturbate when you feel horny? It is better than taking risks sleeping with many different guys. Just my opinion! Feminist stay the f*** away from me!

[Asker]

I don't plan on sleeping with large quantities of men. I don't want to, I just feel like I might not be able to help myself.

[Asker]

And masturbation doesn't do anything. Nothing feels better than the real thing! i.e- d***.

[tommee]

If I give you my number will you call me?

[Asker]

HAHAHAHA!

[zickzack]

A lot of sex can bring one danger, you get much dependant from your partner and you get much sensible and touchy, because you don`t have enough distance to your partner. So much nearness which is coming is only possible, if you really find the right man or woman, else struggles are coming soon.

[zickzack]

You are surely so horny like the night!

Hope you will find the right guy, who is able enough to realize your special sexual interests, resp. satisfy you.

This is possible, if he isn`t an egoist and has enough interests to you.

But learn also to know his sexual interests, so he has enough sex.power for you.

[Asker]

Thanks so do I lol.

[GodzillaMan]

... What's a nympho?

[Asker]

A woman who is hornier than the normal woman.

[Andrew74]

You sound like an average guy. If you were a nympho you would have had way more than 2 hookups. more like 2 hookups per day.

[Asker]

No. Some people aren't social and don't have a lot of people to go and hook up with? Or people they want to hook up with.

[Vanjasper]

Nymphos typically do not get any satisfaction from sex, or sexual encounters.
Is this you?

[rockymyname]

find a friend who wants only sex with a girl and not relationship. then tell him that you want to have group sex with him and his friends... boys are really interested in group sex... then you can just satisfy your desire...get f***ed harder and harder...take breaks also.

[Asker]

I don't know about that. Those guys could have STDS.

[rockymyname]

contraceptives can be used right?

[Asker]

Yeah but it's not always safe.

[rockymyname]

what's your problem? do you want to avoid thinking about sex or do you want that every person you see should be ready to have sex with you?

[Asker]

ummm... neither?

[rockymyname]

if you were a man then I would suggest you to cut your penis and throw it away. there are more interesting things in this world other than sex. you just need to involve yourself in some good activities like dancing, movies, video games...don't you like boys following you. if you behave like a slut then obviously guys will avoid you because they don't want to spoil their image among their friends. Do you have a good image among your friends? do they think that you are a crazy girl?

[Asker]

I don't have any friends and there would be no reason to "spoil their image among their friends" because I don't tell everyone my sexual history so they would never think I'm a slut in the first place.

[rockymyname]

i give up. I got no solution to your problem. :-(

[Asker]

My solution is easy: f*** a goat.

[rockymyname]

go ahead...

[Asker]

I was kidding of course but you must not have a sense of humor lol.

[rockymyname]

i knew it...

[Asker]

Yeah I knew you didn't either. :(

[kthillman]

Haha "im getting in the mood writing this.." and I think its hot your a nympho ;) just idk.. haha

[Asker]

Lol!

[kthillman]

hmu if you need someone to chat with.. when you know ;p

[hafinjun]

Ok I fail to understand your shrinks reaction, you need a man who'll embrace that quality, the term your going to have to kiss a lot of frogs comes to mind.

[Bond94]

Im willing to help you

[jakey70]

Why can't I meet a girl like you?

[ivanhunterjo]

PM me if you want

[Justababy]

Dam you want my help

[Anonymous]

there's nothing wrong by hooking up unless u have a partner but mean while keep up doing what makes u happy.