For virgin girls: How do you keep your man satisfied?

[maybel]

If here is some virgins for principles (no sex before marriage etc) how do you please your boyfriend? Do you ever go for oral sex although you have the principle?

[Anonymous]

ahhha well the usual I guess, dry humping, gropping, hand job, mutual masterbating, or letting him watch while you do it, or watching himdo it, and yea oral too

u could also try phone sex or cyber sex

but I'm guessing its how much you value ur principle

like if to you oral sex, is still sex and you think and believe you could lose ur virginity through it then I guess people won't have oral or any other type of sex

but like if you don't believe you could lose it through oral, then yea of course do it,(thats if both of you are ok with it) my boyfriend loves it, not to mention I do too lol

but its really how much you value ur principle and how far ur willing to go, without you thinking ur loosing ur virginity before hand

[maybel]

Considering how much you do, what is he base of you principle? Is it just that I'm virgin and end of story. For me it is saving something uniq for the one that I will marry. Something that no-one has had their share of it. And well, maybe it is just me, but I think that oral sex ruins that image. I think oral sex is as close as normal intercourse. And with your future husband you have a level that is common for only you. It's your private thing. I just wonder the bases of yor principle..

[tolovewithoutyou]

Oral sex is definitely significant. It can require a lot more trust than sexual intercourse - it's someone being up close smelling and tasting your genitals, getting a good view as well.

[maybel]

Yeap, I agree. It is more intimate than intercourse, that's why I wonder if it is obeying your principles..

[Opinion Owner]

Well I don't really think that oral is the same as normal sex, I really dont my principle is not not have vaginal intersourse until I'm married, and my boyfriend respects that, he knows that under no circumstances will I have normal sex with him unless we get married in the future is that's what ur asking n I no its more intimate, but its also something I choose to do, and something that I believe won't take away my virginity

[maybel]

But I was wondering what is it based on? Your belief? 'Cos if you belive in God and save yourself, 'cos it says so in the Bible, it's not like that..

[Opinion Owner]

My belief? do you mean religion? or something? because well I no it says to save yourself and respect ur body and it talks about fornications being bad and stuff and oral is included in fornication especial to someone whom ur not married to and it condemns it n believe me I am religious, but well in me I believe it isnt, and I may be wrong and have a diff point of view than the bible does about getting intimate without being married is bad, but to me oral is not violating my principle or condeming myself

[maybel]

The only male answerer in this discussion made a good point. And well yeah maybe your point of view isn't quite the same with the bible. But I don't blame you. Everyone got there own head to think about and they will commit actions with their own head and take the resposibility. I understand if you are going to marry this guy.

[Little-Hippie]

I think Oral sex is pretty much sex.

In fact, it's technically sodomy.

In religious terms, that's worse than just having normal sex.

[maybel]

Yeah I agree with you.