Guys, would you get offended if a girl wants to use a vibrator during sex?

There are some positions that just don't offer a lot of stimulation for me and I would like to use a vibrator. I want to ask my boyfriend if he would be into it, but am worried he might think he's not enough. Guys, would you be offended if your girlfriend wanted to use a vibrator during sex?
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  • uhh well it might feel awkward and weird, not offended but he will feel like he's not doing enough. I mean if she wanted in a hole and he's in another, that's fine but not double penetration in the same hole. I couldn't personally do it =/ all that vibration on my "buddy" would be rather uncomfortable.

  • I'd be a bit offended, and wouldn't go through with it if my girlfriend wanted to introduce it to the bedroom. A resounding sign to him that you don't think he's enough, even though it likely isn't what you intend to convey. Some guys are okay with it, but tread cautiously.

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  • Not at all- I am very secure in myself and would only regard it as a "sidekick" that would assist me in further stimulating the girl I am with :)

  • Wasn't this question asked recently? There were a lot of touchy guys, regarding this subject.

    • I love these answers, by the way. The last one had a ton of insecure weenies responding. "OMGZ NO WAY" One should be open minded with sex. :p

  • No problem. My wife uses one from time to time. It's better than getting carpal tunnel trying to do it myself.

    • Lolz

  • Why would I get offended? Most women need something during intercourse to get off. I would expect it. In fact, I usually buy the vibrator, just for this.

  • hellyes lol that's just disrespectful

  • Not at all. She can use what ever toys she wants if it gets her to orgasm.

  • Lol why would we be?

  • On her? No. I wouldn't be offended.

    Now, if she had other plans... I don't know that offended would be the right word. Wary maybe?... Apprehensive?

  • no, why would i, sh*t we can shove a dildo in her ass if she wanted too

  • it depends what your using it for and where

    • for clitoral stimulation during doggie style

    • no that wouldn't be a problem for me

  • I think a vibrator would add to the experience!