How can I stop being so insecure about my tummy during sex?

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I like many women have that tummy that won't go away along with that I have stretch marks on it (my biggest insecurity) I don't like the way it jiggles then I'm usually on top so yeah.  Anyways I always keep my shirt on during sex he never asked me about it & I was thinking it would be a treat for him if he sees my boobs during sex. I just don't want him to be turned off by my stomach or to think it's gross...idk if guys think that way. But a girl will beat herself up about her insecurity forever. He has no fat on him he's gorgeous ;) somewhere between abercombie model & guy next door...way out of my league I always think lol.

cun7n1nja · Accepted Answer

I'm chubby, my belly jiggles a little bit and I have stretchmarks on it too. No guy I've ever been with has said a single word about it. They don't seem turned off at all or give the marks a second look, they're still just as eager to touch and caress as they are any other 'prettier' part of my body. It's not as big of a deal to most guys as you think. Plus, if he hasn't even questioned you about keeping your shirt on during sex, he understands that you're insecure, and if wearing a shirt makes you feel more comfortable, then he seems to be all for it. I'm sure he would LOVE to see your boobs though. And your tummy, no matter how gross YOU think it is. He seems sweet, and I don't think he'll judge you at all or find you less attractive. He'll be happy to be able to see and touch all of you. =]

raineydaygurl · Accepted Answer

i have the same problem with my boyfriend. he's gorgeous and I have a little extra on me so I would keep my bra on when I'd go on top and I've only gone on top like twice and all I could think about was my stomach. but last night I was on top and he keeps insisting he doesn't care about my tummy or that I think my boobs would look gross, so for him I took off my bra and he was so happy and he got really really into it and came really fast after that. so I really don't think he will care so I think you should go for it. I feel much better about it now about it :). but really it really comes down to if your comfortable of course.

lauren01234 · Accepted Answer

I mean...you're having sex with him so I really don't think he'll complain about something like that. Especially if you usually do it with your shirt on then he'll probably be really excited that you're taking it off and really happy that he gets to see your breasts. I have a tummy too and it's really one of those things you just have to try not to think about during sex...

kidmichael1 · Accepted Answer

First of all...take your shirt off. If he loves you, nothing else will matter. A lot of guys DO think that way.

If he's still with you, obviously, he's good with your tummy. Get naked and turn him inside out. And think more of yourself. If he wasn't attracted, he wouldn't be with you.

islands7 · Accepted Answer

Until it goes away, try something sexy ... and let your breasts hang down for him to ravish! He'll be in heaven - not looking at your tummy! 3 times/day and soon that tummy will be gone ...

peace-love-couture · Answer

Exercise and tone up It's really not that hard. If it's causing you insecurity then fix it

pepper01 · Answer

do you have kids? I never heard of having stomach stretch marks without having kids. I'm just curious that's all and I'm sorry if it comes off as a bad question its not meant to be

Anonymous · Answer

you can wear a nice babydoll outfit

Anonymous · Answer

if it makes you feel any better, I saw a p*rno where a girl is giving him head and he turns her to have sex with her and she had a real belly, it wasn't even a big deal because she was acting so sexy. Seriously, guys are jacking off to her so its not gonna turn him off.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't worry about it. The guy is going to be so horny that he doesn't care.

How can I stop being so insecure about my tummy during sex?

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