Guys: what makes a girl good in bed?

[Anonymous]

I started dating a guy (who I haven't slept with yet) and he seems like a really horny guy who's into crazy passionate sex. I'm a little intimidated because I've always been a little reserved. So what makes a girl good in bed? Confidence? Hot body? Someone who's not afraid to try new things? I have an OK body, but I'm not perfect, so that has always held me back a little. Any advice here? And one more question...he masturbates twice a day, is that a lot for a typical guy?

[kidmichael1]

Twice a day ? Normal. There have been times when I've gone 5 or 6 when I was REALLY horny and didn't have a lady to help.

Good in BED ? Oh, Honey, that's entirely up to you. The hot body isn't what makes a woman good in bed. I was once with this totally drop dead gorgeous woman who had the hottest body I'd ever been with at the time, and figurative speaking, she SUCKED it bed.

But you've got most of it right in your question. Willing to learn, willing to please...having the confidence, and most importantly the knowledge of how to please a man. Sometimes this varies from man to man as to what buttons to push,

Soooo, since you haven't had sex with this guy...you have to ask yourself do you WANT him ? If the answer to that is yes, then tell him not to masturbate and to save it for YOU. Then...just be totally willing...Look...if the guy or any guy for that matter wants to get naked with you, he's obviously attracted so don't worry about what you look like naked. Just rock his world when you ARE naked.

He'll be back for more.

[Metallicaman]

That's normal for a guy to masturbate twice a day. And as for bed a vagina is what makes a girl good in bed lol. Oral sex, foreplay. Make him beg for it And let him know you loving it be really into it. For me I find that when a girl treats me like a sex god,and is way into it makes it better. Be willing to try many different positions. Get him close and stop a few times that will make his big moment even better. Keep yourself very wet/lubed. On top grind and twist your hips.

[katiesmuff]

Just go with the flo as long as it is nothing you would not ever want to do or nothing that would be physically harmful to you. It is also good to be a bit aggressive sometimes.

[l-hedoniste]

"Confidence?" Yes.

"Hot body?" *NO*; plenty of cold fish in nice wrapping out there.

"Someone who's not afraid to try new things?" Definitely.

Enthusiasm, good cheer, and a sense of humor don't hurt either.

"he masturbates twice a day, is that a lot for a typical guy?"

No such thing as a typical guy; that's a lot for some, a little for others, and for him, just right.

[Cantremember]

Be active. If you just lie there an take it, it's a huge turn off. Even if you enjoy it. Tell your partner what you like. Do them. Do things for your partner. Be playful. Make little requests. Don't be afraid to want.

[Elisha22]

Having a p**** and t*ts will probably help :)

[dzj031682195]

i thought it is Someone who's not afraid to try new things

[longgone]

Someone who's not afraid to try new things.

[vishky]

if our guy is super horny, only thing that matters is how high you can raise your legs ;-) lol

you know what, sex and guys are not complicated, its simple, HAVE SEX they way its mean to be, and if you want to mihty impress him, give him a head , its like leaving a $100 bucks tip for $200 meal , you know what I mean , he will be super duper happy

[Anonymous]

If she doesn't do blowjobs = instabad.

[hvillagomez]

bahaha