My girl wants me to get another girl pregnant!

[VeteranSoldier]

Ok, this is going to sound strange as all hell but here we go. My girl is unable to have anymore children, we can't adopt (work has my family relocating, money is awesome but re-location didn't sit well with them) My girl said her friend who looks like her is willing, and she wants me to sleep with her friend and get her pregnant. Now we know about IVF and that is not an option either sadly. My girl says this is a great way. I feel this is cheating she says its starting a family.

[rachiee]

I don't understand why you can't adapt? Even if you're moving, you can adopt a child there. Relocating and getting her friend pregnant is a worse situation than adopting after you've moved.

I don't think its a good idea. I think you guys should do this with an organization that specializes in it. You need to set rules, if you don't want the mother to see the child ever then you can set that rule but this can turn out to be a very messy situation. Her friend may decide that she wants to keep the child a couple of years from now and try to fight you in court. You can prevent that but its not worth it. Plus chances are your wife may say that she's okay with you sleeping with her friend now, but you never know how her feelings may change without her control afterwords.

Bottom line, its too messy. Adopt or do it the proper way by going through an organization.

[Deft_maiden]

Starting a family with 3 adults lol. If is not smart and adult enough then you should be.what happens when the child is grown and wants to know who the real mommy is? What about the other woman? Is she just going to walk away? What if one of you down the line has a change of heart and can't hold their end of the bargain? Have you ever heard of similar cases that went well in the long run? Not recommended.

[someonerandom]

+1

[VeteranSoldier]

that is the plan the girl is only a carrier since I can have kids but my wife cannot

[Deft_maiden]

I understand but not a well thought out plan! One slip and it can effect everyone's future adversely. @someonerandom . Dude you forgot to click on +1! Just saying

[Anonymous]

i think that right now she is only thinking about a child, but I think in the long run if you sleep/get pregnant with her friend she would be jealous even thought she said she wanted it. I know I would be, I would rather have a faithful husband then a kid that he made with someone else. you should stick to adoption. this keeps your relationship with your wife, and gives you a kid. its a win win!

[l-hedoniste]

Not for me to say, though my rule of thumb is that it's not cheating of she consents; what agreement would I be violating?

Besides, what else ya got?

[KERMlT]

Tell her that you'd only feel comfortable if you had a threesome with the other girl. Then it wouldn't feel like you were cheating on her.

[shapeshiftgirl]

This one is wise.

[RicoSuave]

just what I was about to say. . this should work just fine.

[Alpha93]

My Brain says no. penis says do it.