Would you get turned off by a flabby bum?

[Anonymous]

I hate my ass :( it's untoned, flabby, wobbles and its big for my size, has some stretch marks & cellulite too. It's so gross. I am embarrassed to wear a bikini. I am only 21 and skinny (100lbs and 5'3) why is my ass so gross? The rest of my body is skinny. I eat healthy and drink lots of water and get at least 30 min of exercise a day (usually not a hard work out though lol just fast walking, swimming or bike riding). do guys think flabby bums are disgusting? I'm ashamed of it :( guys tell me I have a nice ass with pants on... I think they would change their mind if they saw me naked though lol it's hiddious!

[brunettebaby]

Aw Hun, if you're only 100 pounds I'm sure your bum isn't nearly as flabby as you think!

If you want to tone your bum though, try doing squats and lunges (they do wonders for my own booty! Lol)

Also, if you have access to an elliptical machine, try a tougher resistance and turn the incline up to the highest level and go at a fast speed for about 30 minutes.

If you do that 4x a week, you'll have a Gisele Bundchen worthy bum in no time! :)

Ps: guys love big butts, what guy doesn't drool over Kim k or Jlo's backside! Love what God gave you :)

[ZenQueen]

just embrace the parts you do like, and to try toning your behind, biking made my ass into a giant rock(sounds bad but I love it.lol) I haven't biked for about a year but it still is really toned. Get rid of the fat and replace it with pure muscle.

[Asker]

Yeah biking is good I need to do more of it! The weathers been too hot. Maybe I should get an exercise bike so I can do it inside lol.

[ZenQueen]

you can do that or if you have stairs you can walk up and down those, and you can also do squats, trust me if you keep at it you will see change, good luck!:)

[ChrisSnapEm-smooth]

Lol no we don't get turned off unless that man is a punk because me I like all kids of butts as long as it ain't small and skinny if any thing I get more turned on by a fat butt that has celulite because it means that ass is pure fat and I enjoy it but if you don't like it mabey you could get somebody number ask send them a picture of it and ask them if its bad a guy will be honest I know I willso mabey give me a message in my inbox with your number send me the picture and ill tell you the honest truth ^_^ lol what do you say?

[InquisitiveMale]

doushe

[ChrisSnapEm-smooth]

Your mother

[Yesman69]

I personally love a woman's overall being. But, the only time one would see your bum, would be in the bedroom, (or wherever you have sex) right? SO, I assure you, a man who is attracted too your ass with pants on, and if you two are in the heat of the moment and passionate, he will embrace that ass and do freaky things to it. Haha, seriously, the passion will blind any "hideousness" or "insecurities" one might be having self, or otherwise.

[InquisitiveMale]

I know I might have some thumbs down coming my way but I'm not afraid to be honest when others are.

A flabby ass, especially if you have cellulite, I don't find attractive. I wouldn't go as far as to call it a "turn off", it's not going to stop me from doing the deed if I'm already there, but if you're say, in a bathing suit at the beach, I won't approach you, but rather your friend who is nicely toned all over.

One word... SQUATS... and lots of them.

[Asker]

The cellulite isn't very bad but I wish I didn't have any lol. Yeah I do squats and lunges but nothing has really changed. It still wobbles lol.

[InquisitiveMale]

If nothing has changed then you're not doing it right. Results require focus. You need to tense your muscle groups and really feel it where you want the effects to show. I can't tell you how long I did crunches in an attempt to get a 6pack with no results; literally over two years. It took me 3months from the time I learned how to do it properly.

[peejaymac]

I personally find it really sexy!!! I could quite happily walk behind a woman with a large bottom and prod it playfully!!

[rockymyname]

be thankful to god...

[Asker]

Why? I don't like it lol

[rockymyname]

but we boys like it...thats what we want.

[Asker]

Boys like toned firm bums mine is soft and wobbles

[rockymyname]

how do you know what boys like...they like all kinds of asses except skinny ass.

[Asker]

I know they think cellulite and flab is not attractive. If they say they like a big bum they mean big & firm.

[dsrice1966]

No I would not.