There are a lot of women who want what you want. The problem is that guys are too conditioned to be PC to go there. I'm a feminist and very strongly support the women's movement. The problem is that while it enlarged the role of women, it didn't tell men how to change their role so now a lot of guys are uncertain and a man can't dominate from a place of uncertainty. I'm in a relationship where we're partners. However, when the clothes start coming off, her ass is mine! I take the lead generally and she knows that I defer to her on a few things like handling the money but I take major offense if she doesn't behave like a lady and wait for me to come around and open her car door. She also knows that if we ever disagree on something where a decision has to be made and can't find a consensus, I'm the head of the household and will make the call.
If you find a guy that you are really into, ask him to take control and see what happens. It may take a little trial and error but before long you'll find a guy who can and will dominate in a way that you like.0 0 0 0A woman liking an older, stronger man? Gasp! Where did you come from? Are there more of you in this world?
Sigh...
Join the "99.9% of all women" club. Oh wait, you're already there.
Women desire to be dominated. This isn't news. No, you aren't 1 in a billion. You are the billion.3 2 0 1i can totally hear you saying that^^ in this... slightly bored, slightly depressed voice :p
I'm quite happy, and this question about one incredibly unique individual certainly livened my mood even more.
LOL. right... :p
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I'm engaged to a man 20 years my senior, and I love how dominant he is. It's such a turn on. Mine happens to have some money, but that's not why I like him. I love how sexy and funny and charming he is.
I think most men want a relationship like this. Especially in bed!
I love it when me and my man are having sex and he holds me wrists down or puts his hands around my neck.0 2 1 1I like to be dominated in the bedroom, but not in everyday life. I like to be with a guy who is assertive, but not one who tries to dominate me.
Age and strength aren't very important to me. In terms of intelligence, I prefer a partner who is of similar intelligence to me. I like it when my partner and I can challenge each other intellectually.1 0 0 0No, not my style. I like to be independent and do what I wanna do and all that good stuff. I like dating guys that are equal to me, not higher or lower.
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2 8Well then perhaps you and I should talk ! Check out my profile & you'll see what I mean. I'm a sweetheart of a guy, but yes, it's wildly exciting to be dominant in the bedroom...I don't suppose you're in Ohio...ARE YOU ? I've been looking for YOU for a lonnnnng time ! (LOL)
0 0 0 1LOVE DOMINATE GUYS. if its not xual then...no. lol. sometimes if he's like "get your ass..." yea if its not a threat folloed with something xual then noo...its a no go. I don't lyke to be submissive outside.
1 3 0 0Take me I'm yours...(:
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very common, HOWEVER, studies have shown that marriages are more likely to be successful if the female is younger and smarter than the man
1 0 0 0Sorry, I have control issues. I wouldn't want to be dominated and I'd be very hesitant to dominate someone else. I seem to ask if she's alright often.
0 1 0 0Some men do, sure.
I'm quite attracted to the Dom/sub lifestyle myself, but it's very hard to find a naturally submissive girl, since Dom men outnumber them so much.
I mean, what's the point in having age, power, superiority, if you can't use it once in a while. :)1 0 0 0it's a mixture (intellectually, emotionally, sexually, etc). I like being challenged by him and also posing a challenge to him.
1 1 0 2I bet you do :) +1
hi Kain. :p
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0 0 0 0I love to be Dominated by my woman , then I can get really kinky & horny too.
0 0 0 0Personally I hate girls that like to be dominated, but that's just me.
0 0 0 0this might sound crazy but I'd love to have a girl dominate me. like tie me up or just ride me. just like control the sh*t outta me. wow sorry . that's awesome. yeah but id like to be the dominate one once in a while lol
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