How to let a guy know you want to bang him?

So this guy and I that flirt with each other a lot were talking. I told him I'm very stressed out and want to destress and he asked me how I want to and I totally wanted to say "a good screw" but I thought that would be improper so I just said "you know, stuff" in a coy kind of way, and he kept asking what so I don't think he got it. Do you think he got it? How do I let him know I want him? Isn't it too direct to tell a guy you're horny?
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So you don't think a guy would turn it down if a girl told him that's what she wanted?
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Okay thanks guys. Making the move just isn't my thing. I'm not used to it and unsure about it/scared of rejection.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think you can get your point across largely with what you wear around him. Wear things that you feel sexy in and do those girlie things that tell a guy that the interest is there: touching him, direct looks, you know the drill. The other interpretation is that he wanted to make you sort of submit to him by confessing that you need to get laid and want him to be the one. In that case, reluctantly give it up. Tell him you're sure he knows the "ultimate stress reliever" and that you need ultimate stress relief and soon.

    Let us know what happens.

  • Tell him

    I was wondering if you wanted to go with me tonight to dinner and dessert. I have a few cravings to fill. If he asks what, tell him what you want for dinner and for dessert you want his cock. Oh, and don't say that when he's eating or drinking something.

    • ahahahahhahahahaha... the last sentence is epic. :D

    • Subtle my ass, say it verbatim. :D I'm sure it would be the most memorable think he was told this decade.

    • Lmao at this one.

Most Helpful Girls

  • just tell him.

    'yo. I'd like to f*** you. you mind?'

    i think being direct is best in this scenario :D

    • I mean he has joked about us making out before and he clearly is attracted to me. You think he would go for it? I don't want him to be taken aback though.

    • he's a dude. he's attracted to you. trust me, he'll go for it. :p

    • He's like 20 years older. (Not married though)

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  • It depends on the guy, but he may just go for it.

  • It depends on a lot of factors like when he last got laid, how attracted to you he is, if he wants casual sex, etc. I feel like you just have to go for it. Pull him off in a corner, kiss him hard with lots of tongue. If he responds, go all out and start fondling his package. No guy can mistake that.

  • Just whisper "I WANT you" ... Or..."I want you SO bad" in his ear. He'll be putty in your hands. Let me know how it turns out OK ?

  • Being coy is a very good way to avoid getting through to a guy.

    Admitting what you wanted would have gotten exactly what you wanted.

  • Lmao we don't get hints, just tell him.

  • i would be in heaven if a girl just straight out asked me. I wouldn't mind lmao. makes it easier for me. plus I'm not good with making moves even I have to. but hey I respect you and would think that's super awesome if you just told me. I'm a nerd like that. but this guy may not want it no offense. but on the other hand I don't know not 1 guy who would decline unless he were gay obv. good luck

  • place d*** here...while pointing toward your p****

  • Talking about it won't help. In the extreme he may even just think you're joking. You're better off play fighting with him, getting your body right up against his, giving him "the look" and then making out. If you'd like it t lead to sex, just reach down and start stroking. I pretty much guarantee success

  • turn up naked

  • Take your pants off

    • LOL that'll do it.

    • bahaha problem solved for sure

    • How is this not best answer?

  • Start rubbing his thigh and work your way up and whisper in his ear "I want you to make me feel amazing"