This really bothers me... they hate penises (or how they look anyway) and then they lie about it... why is this?
This question was aimed at the girls, actually... >.>
The reason it bothers me is because I could never, EVER have sex with a woman who didn't find me attractive... and so long as she like every other girl thinks a penis is ugly and never meant to be seen, ever, then I am not attractive because I'm male and thus have said unsightly genitalia. It's not fair to either side... and it really hurts knowing that I'm ugly.
That organ is responsible for an overwhelming majority of the sexual abuse that happens on this planet -- that's what makes them ugly to me. It's less about the actual visual look of them, and more what they represent. -- And unlike you're original post, I'm absolutely not shy to explain this to anyone who would ask me. When men stop using that organ to traumatize other people, I'll probably look at it in an understandably more positive way. -- Yes, I do realize that not every man does these things, but too many do, and it carries that weight as a symbol. I imagine there are many other people -- of either gender -- who also feel this way.
If the girl hasn't seen a penis before then yeah it's going to be weird and kind of ugly for the first time you meet it. I was like this with my bf's penis but I got along with it just fine once I got to know it more. I started touching it and petting it and playing with it and I grew to love it :).
I feel like people who think all genitals are unattractive have a problem with their sexuality. Not to say that they like either men or women, but that they are embarrassed, confused, or in some other way think negatively about sexuality in general. I happen to think my penis is very attractive and I've known many girls to agree with that, in fact just about everyone who isn't sexually repressed. Likewise I think there are a lot of attractive vaginas out there. That's not to say every penis and every vagina is beautiful, but they certainly aren't all ugly.