I was in shock and didn't confess it was rape until two weeks after it happened, which made things complicated with doctors and stuff and especially my boyfriend because I didn't tell him it was rape.
I know that was stupid, but bear with me this is a hard time and I'm dealing with some tough psychological stuff! (the counselors at the assault clinic said it's normal) I finally told him about a week ago and he said he had to think and would call me...
he still hasn't called me and I know that's a lot to think about, but it's making it hard to deal with the rest of the stuff I have going on. Plus, I always respected him and loved his outlook on life so if I had something going on, I'd always go to him about it...now I don't really have anyone...and a big boyfriend hug would make me feel so much better.
With the rape I felt like I lost my sense of security, some sanity and now I feel like I've lost my best friend. what can I do?
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If I went through the same thing you did...
My ex lover would hunt the f***er down and make sure the guy ended up at the bottom of the Pacific or something.
What's there to "think about"? You were raped. It's not "Oh she willingly did this to me", he needs to grow a pair and take care of his lady.
And if he can't do that, f*** that guy. He's no friend.
Tell him plain and simple "I am having a difficult time right now and I need you. I need my best friend, I need to feel secure."
If he can't do that, he's not worth anything.8
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