I was in shock and didn't confess it was rape until two weeks after it happened, which made things complicated with doctors and stuff and especially... Show More
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If I went through the same thing you did...
My ex lover would hunt the f***er down and make sure the guy ended up at the bottom of the Pacific or something.
What's there to "think about"? You were raped. It's not "Oh she willingly did this to me", he needs to grow a pair and take care of his lady.
And if he can't do that, f*** that guy. He's no friend.
Tell him plain and simple "I am having a difficult time right now and I need you. I need my best friend, I need to feel secure."
If he can't do that, he's not worth anything.