Girlfriend said being uncut is disgusting and I am uncut. Should I be mad?

[Anonymous]

some how we got on the top of circumcision. I said if I had a son I wouldn't have him circumcised and she made a face and said " eww there's no way I would let my son be uncut". I said "umm.. you realize I'm not cicrumcised right? she said " what? yes you are" I said " umm no I'm not... how could you not know that? we been going out for 4 months and having sex for 10 months" she said "omg I'm so sorry I feel so stupid". She is extremely good at lying so part of me thinks she said what she ment and realized I was offended and then tried to play it off. I mean how could she not know? she has been with over 10 men and I mean for the past ten months we have been showering together, sleeping together (often times naked) and having sex. But the other part of me thinks her reaction was genuine so I shouldn't be offended because she had no idea what she was talking about. This happened 3 days ago and I Haven't been able to get over it. Should I be mad? and if so what should I do about it?

[goflipaburger]

She sounds a little... ugh.

You have every right to be mad. Heck, I would be, too!

To be honest, I think she doesn't know what the difference between the two is. Don't judge me, but I didn't know what the difference looked like until last year lol. I knew what it meant to be circumcised, I didn't know what it looked like to be circumcised or uncircumcised (I was a sheltered child/teen lol).

If you two have been having sex, its obvious she likes it. Sit down and talk with her about why she "didn't know" you were not circumcised and why she said what she said.

Just keep in mind that the bottom line is that she loves having sex with you and is a little ignorant.

[kgrrl2323]

i think she meant what she said but I also think that when she apologized, she meant it too. it's not everyday in America or australia that you meet a guy that is intact because it's very uncommon in those parts of the world. so she just assumes every guy is and growing up with that kind of mentality would make you think that the opposite is appauling or why would people get that procedure done? I say forgive her but also educate her. it's really not her fault that she was given false information to live by and clearly she likes it uncut even without her knowing or she wouldn't be having sex with you.

[Betwyn]

I'd be interested in knowing if she breaks up with you...

The fact she didn't know you were uncut on her own, means she's been told to not like it...

So either she will now decide, she doesn't mind it..

or the fact you are uncut will eat away at her, how gross it is, gross you are... and she will not be able to handle that and break up with you..

[Asker]

haha damn! I think that's a little extreme

[Betwyn]

I don't.. it will be one or the other..

[Uncut]

Don’t listen to this stupid bitch she is a uneducated

[NerdInDenial]

You have the right to be mad. It's not going to solve the problem. She is ignorant and/or clueless if she doesn't realize that you are not cut. Unless she feels that the sex in the past 10 months has been bad, although it wouldn't especially if she's staying, demonstrate her with her experience that it doesn't matter if the guy is cut or uncut.

[Anonymous]

Look, she's so damn ignorant on the subject, she couldn't even tell that you were not cut.

Her opinion shouldn't matter a good god damn.

That's the way I'd take it.

[38rakia38]

How could you not know that a guy is uncut...

There's like...a gigantic difference in appearance...foreskin is extremely obvious.

Your girlfriend sounds like my best friend.

I love her to death, but she says the dumbest sh*t like it's fact. Chances are she actually had no idea what foreskin looked like or what a circumcised d*ck actually looks like.

Open mouth, insert foot.

[l-hedoniste]

New girlfriend, now.

You don't want a girl who hates your junk, especially when she's close-minded and bitchy about it. Make her someone else's problem.

[Betwyn]

So? Are you two still together?

[Asker]

yea

[CuriousEddie]

John, give it a break... Isn't this enough foreskin rants today?

[Asker]

? I don't know what you are talking about? and my names not john and I have never brought up anything about foreskin before

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

She sounds stupid lol

[Uncut]

Girls can be stupid and say they don't like it because of what they hear. It's normal to, be uncut. I have never had complaints and the girls that have all seen it say it's nice. If you have not already dump the bitch

[kelllllllllllllllsii]

don't be mad I did almost the same thing... I really had no idea as stupid as that may seem

[Anonymous]

She probably didn't know you were uncut. Some girls are really dumb and don't realize the difference if they've never seen his soft penis.

[Anonymous]

Foreskin rules!

[Anonymous]

Who has sex with clothes on anyway? And she must not be the smartest girl because she didn't even know if you were cut or not.

[Anonymous]

she sounds ignorant to be honest or just immature. I realize its your girlfriend so I mean no offence but if she actually learned about it she wouldn't say stuff like that. She probably did have a genuine reaction but the fact that she didn't know you weren't circumcised even though she has surely seen your penis just makes it obvious she doesn't really know what she's talking about

I say, don't be mad and if you want to just inform her about it. We're all ignorant about something so just educate if you feel the need to