How do you guys feel when you are left turned on?

After getting it up, the girl says NO, what do you guys feel? what's the sensation? And what would you think of the girl?


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  • I'm assuming you're the one who helped him get it up (as in touching, making out, something physically active not just by being hot and not just simple loving kisses).

    It feels probably about the same as if a guy said "I love you to death girl, marry me." You said yes, and then he said "Just kidding!"

    Maybe not that bad, but it really really sucks. If he was really horny he might shake a little from adrenaline, his mind is gonna be on fire about sex, his heart is gonna race and he's gonna find something to get his mind off it as soon as possible.

    They'll probably find an excuse to go somewhere and jack off (well it's been a long day, think I'll go shower honey) and they will, I guarantee you, think in their mind how much it sucks they're sittin there jackin their shit because the girl they like didn't want to get down.

    Now, you gotta realize, guys are used to not gettin what we want. We will put up with this because, let's face it, girls gotta want to do it too, sex is a mutual thing otherwise it's called rape, and every guy respects that so we will complain but understand. In the end though, if you don't like doing us a lot, you'll lose a lot of points and he might even consider finding a girl who is more active.

    Just don't tease us like this, and don't start something you don't plan to finish because it blows for our side of things.

    If on the other hand, your guy just got up from looking at you or thinkin about you or just a random boner (happens all the time) it's not your painstaking responsibility to finish him off just because he got hard. Girlfriends aren't slaves to our dick, no guy expects to snap his fingers and have a girl relieve him whenever we get a boner. Natural hard ons, that you didn't touch us to cause, are something we deal with our whole life, so don't worry.


What Guys Said 8

  • You'd probably be mad naturally. Even if it's not shown. Naturally you'd be disappointed in her, and upset. :(

  • It depends, What cause me to get hard. If I got HArd because I let myself get turned on by looking at her fully dress and then she said no then I have no Hard (no pun intended) feeling for her. The Hard on will go away shortly anyways.

    on the other hand, If I got hard because she was "teasing" me by touching me down there and other things like that and got me close to cumming then that can be painful. Have you ever heard the term "blus Balls" before? IF this only was a rare thing to happen and I was in a relationship with the girl I most likely would have no hard feeling but if this is an on going thing she does then I would need to have a talk with her about why she is doing this to me.

  • I don't think any guy likes to be teased or just led on, but a guy does respect it when a girl says no.

  • Well it depends if she actually was going to have sex in the first place!! But most of the time that's an instant turn off I would say...But again it depends on the guy cause he might now just want to have sex he might just be having fun doing whatever you are doing and would think nothing less of it! Its really easy for a guy to get it up so its really not that big of a let down most the time but there are always things he can ask to do besides sex so its not so bad!!

  • Well I guess I would just find an excuse to leave, if we were nearing the end of the date anyway, and I'd go home and relieve myself. But fortunately that hasn't happened.

    The sensation of having to hold it in is discomforting. Almost painful but not quite. But still, uncomfortable. When the feeling is there, it needs to come out.

  • At first I'm pissed but then I masterbate and I'm all better lol

  • Turn off for sure but I mean my girl has done that plenty of times...


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