How do you feel about eye contact during sex?

How do you feel about making direct eye contact during sex? A lot of people say that girls like it because sex is emotional for them, but I find it to be a little odd, and I prefer kissing or no eye contact. What do you think? And does it matter if it's your long time girlfriend or just a hookup?
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Whatever you're doing with whomever when it comes to sexual stuff, just do what comes natural to you without thinking about it. If it's making eye contact, so be it. If not, that's okay too. Eye contact always makes whatever you're doing more personal as long as how you do it isn't done in some kind a weird way or at a wrong moment. Just be natural because that's what's unique about each person. When you try to purposely do something because you heard you should be doing that, it can usually comes across as looking fake, without meaning, or even stupid..

Most Helpful Girls

  • Depends on who you are having sex with, I feel that if it's someone you're dating for a while, or an old flame then making eye-contact shows the emotions and the sexual intensity between you and your partner.

    What most people would say, if the person is staring at the partner the whole time, it would be awkward... Me and my partner made quite a bit of contact during sex, but at times I would have my eyes closed just enjoying the pleasure of sex. However, making eye contact is sexy and also makes your sexual experience a good one!

  • I think its creepy. I think the eyes should be closed for the most part with the brows all furrowed with pleasure and concentration, and maybe a glance every now and then with a hot look. For the most part, closed eyes are better. I think its more intimate to feel like you've made him so hot that all he can concentrate on is feeling. Kinda like voyeurism, its a thrill.

  • Yeah some eye contact is nice, because sometimes I like feeling connected to the guy like that. But I agree with thelittlethings..not the whole time lol, a couple times for a few seconds is good. I'm more down with just kissing or looking down and umm..watching the guy at work lol

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  • Look me in the eyes once or twice for a few seconds, don't stare the whole time or it gets awkward.

    If it's just a hook up then I don't care for it.

  • I don't even know what I look at half the time but when he looks at me I'm like ahhh okay . ..

  • I done like it, it makes me feel uneasy. I think that occasionally it's alright but not for a long time because then it gets creepy. (unless of course,you're in a long-term relationship and you have an amazing bond I guess.)

  • Eye contact makes me feel more comfortable.

  • occasionally for short periods of time are ok

  • I think that if it's someone you've been with for awhile then eye contact is perfect for making you feel more connected with that person. But there is such thing as too much. Personally I like it but I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time now. Really it's whatever your most comfortable with.

    In a hook-up though I'm sure people'd find it a bit weird, maybe even creepy.

  • i don't like eye contact during sex and I m a very emotional girl.but I feel just close ur eyes and feel everything is more sexy and focused