Does anal sex feel good to you? [GIRLS-ONLY]

This is a girl's only question, but guys, feel free to put in some input. Over the years that I've been with girls, I've always respected the boundary of anal sex. Of all my knowledge, I've only thought that anal sex for a girl is painful. Recently, however, while talking to some girl-friends of mine, a few have told me that anal sex actually felt pleasurable to them. I'm lost and confused, I thought it was a painful procedure. Girls, what does anal sex REALLY feel like for you? Is it painful or does it feel better than sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I used to have anal sex quite frequently with my ex and I found it very pleasurable.

    I've tried it with my current partner but it usually feels a bit painful (he's larger than my ex).

    Also, it has to be just the right amount of lube for me. Too little and it hurts; too much and to be honest, it makes it feel like I'm taking a sh*t, which makes it very hard to enjoy.

    From talking with other girls: some hate it, some think it's okay, and some love it (and can even achieve multiple orgasms from it).

  • It is very painful for me. I have Crohn's disease (a disease of the digestive system and colon) and it has caused polyps, hemmroids, and severe anal irritation. The last time I had anal sex (which was probably 6 years ago) it caused bleeding. I'm not the norm though. A lot of women without these problems find it enjoyable.

  • I enjoy it, if the guy knows what he's doing. As in, doesn't think he can just shove it in with no preparation and expect me to think that feels good, haha. Some of my most intense orgasms have happened during anal sex, with clitoral stimulation. It's certainly an experience. =]

Most Helpful Guy

  • Some girls definitely love it. It really depends on the girl, but there's no hard and fast rule of "They love it" or "they hate it" or "it always hurts". It's always going to depend on the girl.

    • Actually I would say it depends also pretty much on the guy as well, the first guy who did it on me knew what he was doing. He made me relax and everything before entering, basicly its important fr the guy to know how its done, its not the same thing as normal v-sex, you can't just insert without making her ready for it :-) the reason girls would say it "always hurt" is because they have never been with a guy who knew what he was doing.

    • I'd agree with you there, -Darling. I guess I just took it as a given that the guy should know what he's doing, and be reasonably sized, and use the right amount of lube.

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  • tried it, it's not really me. it hurt the first couple times and it was uncomfortable the last time I did it but I never got off so I don't see the point in it. but I have friends that only have anal because it feels really good to them. every girl is different on their views of it.

  • I have fallen in love with anal sex, as long as one of us is rubbing my clit at the same time and he licks my ass first in preparation I love it

  • yea its a good pain, but don't get crazy! then its just painful.

  • Yes it feels amazing!

  • I don't know!

  • Now I enjoy it - infact love it, but it took a few different goes before I did

  • No anal for me.