How bad are blue balls really?
Sorry, just it seems like guys exaggerate how bad it is. I'm a sick person, and kiss a guy, suck on his neck, grind on him, grab his d*** and tell him how much I want him, then send him home. he's my boyfriend though, and he's nearly in tears by the end Ahahahaha. How cruel is this?
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blue balls can actually be really painful for a guy, so if your getting some sort of sadistic pleasure out of this know that it really does hurt him, at least until he is able to relieve himself. I don't find this all that funny, but if he likes this sort of submission then continue on, but if you are doing this to intentionally hurt him it reall is sick. you should be careful I know nice guys who have been pushed around by the girls they like, they are so desperate for so long that they may take advantage of things, the game your playing is capable of going both ways so be warned. you seem to have a nice guy, you shouldn't abuse that, you should be grateful. but the reason he stays is because in the back of his mind is always the lingereing "next time she will follow through...one day she will finish me off..xyz..blah blah blah" the more often you do this without follow through the less and less hope he has. but hope it works out for the best and your boy gets his rocks off somehow
That's horrible. I'm glad you said you'll stop because it's cruel and unusual punishment for someone who sounds like a nice guy (he must be to have put up with that). If I were you, I'd take care of and finish him off next time as sort of an apology. If you don't want to do that, then just stay away from his genitals entirely.
It depends. Of you are waiting to have sex, it's normal to take it to a certain point and then stop. If not, it's more debatable. Real blue balls can be very painful, but being super turned on and having blue balls are not the same.