Have you ever forced yourself on her ?

[sammy5233]

I love my wife. But I get turned off when some times when she disagrees for a half hour or a quickie. Ending up in just smooches squeezes licking but no entry. Some foreplay is always advisable before the rocket launch. But I have never forced myself on her. My question here is have you Guys or Gals forced yourself on her or him ?

[AustinMan]

I have insisted on occasion and it's never been a big problem. We're pretty kinky and she knows that sometimes she's gonna have to submit to me, her Bad Daddy. We also love to live out mock rape fantasies. If your wife is reluctant, tell her you'll do all the work but she has to engage emotionally. Just tell her what you want and that it's her job as your wife to give it to you within reason.

[Anonymous]

You're crazy! Forcing yourself on someone doesn't result in pleasure. Stop fantasizing about using aggression to get your precious little ejaculation. Nobody likes being violated.

[elements]

"OK forget rape here"

How can we forget rape, when forcing yourself on someone IS rape?

[sammy5233]

Ur rite but when we have the ability to change rape into pleasure I think its more comfortable for both, if not not I totally agree that rape is rape.

[elements]

How exactly do you change rape into pleasure? It might be pleasurable for you, but if you force yourself on her, it's not pleasurable for her.

[sammy5233]

Haven't you pulled a guy to bed till now.

[elements]

What?

[sammy5233]

My wife has pulled me to bed on a number of occasions after work, after gym, bath etc..., when we are not prepared for it, can you call that as rape for guys.

[elements]

It depends on what the guy felt it was. If he enjoyed it, why would he call it rape? But if your wife just pulled you to bed and you followed her willingly, knowing what was going to happen, that is not rape. Forcing yourself on your wife when she isn't in the mood, however, is rape.

[sammy5233]

See that is the point when you girls want it - No rape, when we want it - Rape.

[elements]

That isn't what I said. It's not about you simply wanting it - it's about you wanting it and not respecting your wife's wishes.

[sammy5233]

Cool mate.

[RealMenFly]

LOL.

[elements]

@RealMenFly: Amused by something?

[Anonymous]

Forcing yourself is rape, regardless of whether she ended up liking it or not.

[-Darling]

H O T

[sammy5233]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[-Darling]

lol what?

[sammy5233]

Nothing your comment H O T just made me go hmmmmmmmmmm

[-Darling]

: )

[jacquesvol]

I never forced myself on ANY person.
It is rape.

[Anonymous]

Um ... no. That's illegal and immoral.

[Opinion Owner]

I think what the poster above is saying, is that it's fine to iniate sex, but once someone shows/tells you that they want to stop, you have to stop. If you start kissing and touching your wife and she gives you the go ahead ... have sex with her. If she does not welcome it, it's wrong to make her have sex. Is English not your first language?

[sammy5233]

Hey mate no hard feelings...just curious about others point of view that is it.