Hand job at the movies on a first date?

[john5246]

Would you do this to a guy? I was at the movies and we were holding hands, I put her hand over my zipper and she felt it get hard, so she took a squeeze, then I unzipped it, she put her hand in and started to stroke it right there, so I pulled it out and covered it with our jackets, basically she was playing with my c-ck the whole movie. Is that too much for a first date or would you do this to a guy at all? Theater was pretty empty.

[cun7n1nja]

Probably not on a first date, no. Unless maybe if it were some kind of situation with a friend I'd known well for a long time, where our feelings toward each other changed into a different gear and we decided to try dating. And also assuming there's lots of sexual tension between us. Otherwise, highly unlikely, I like to get to know people some before I get sexual with them.

[MissMaryJane]

I am not gonna lie. I probably would. lol

[SCU2013]

Damn on a first date? She shouldve just spread her legs right there because that's the message she was sending lol. I've heard of couples doing this but that's because they are couples. For a first date, hell no.

[beerY33]

a first date? jesus. I'm willing to bet that you're not in for a meaningful relationship.

[john5246]

she started it not me! She didn't have to grab my d-ck, but oh well..

[beerY33]

doesn't change my answer.

[mccollins]

I would not. It would make me feel easy

[sourpatchchik2]

Ha not a chance.

[john5246]

oh really? there no guy that you think is hot enough that if he put your hand there you wouldn't do anything? psshh

[sourpatchchik2]

Nope, they'd have to earn that lol.(; I wouldn't do anything more than kissing on a first date actually...no feeling up or anything at all yet.

[05Jueey]

That's hot

[JennieF]

Done it.

[Anonymous]

Depends. If I knew him before the date then yes. But if I didn't really know him before hand then no. I would say it would be to much.

Hope it was fun!

[john5246]

yeah I had to stop her because I though I might come or something

[Anonymous]

On a first date?I wouldn't do that,i wouldn't want to be mistaken for a hoe or someone whos just going to give you sex and that's it.

[john5246]

I like that, it's a good trick to make a girl think you really want a relationship :p

[Anonymous]

Listen for a frist date is much. But I think I would do that and then not date you again. Because you let me keep it going. When you you should have stop me and said "I wan to know you. Yes I want this bad and thank you for this more than you know, but I want a relationship." If you said that then I would jump in the car ride home.

[Anonymous]

On first date? That's a little much hun for just hanging out the first time.

[john5246]

it was just fooling around, I didn't come or anything I could understand if we went all the way but we didn't

[Opinion Owner]

Well It just seems very sexual on the first date. I mean normally people get to know each other a little bit.

[john5246]

Most people are VERY sexual, they just pretend that they're not because they're scared of people judging them

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of people don't just give handjobs on the first date but if your cool with it then hey there is nothing to worry about. But just keep mind that since she gave you a handjob on your first date she's probably done it before if not probably more with other dudes she has talk to or is currently talking to

[john5246]

right that's the assumption peopel make, maybe this was her first time? There no way to know but why assume the worst? plus most guys would not do what I did so I doubt she's done that before or many times, how many guys open up their zipper at the movies.

[Anonymous]

If I only wanted sex then yes but not with someone I really cared about

[kheserthorpe]

This drives me nuts.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

It does.

[Opinion Owner]

why? Isn't it the same for guys?

[john5246]

yeah apparently you can't be sexual with someone you care about or really like, why did our society turn out this way :(

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say that. But on a 1st date I'd be more flirtatious and suggestively sexual. Idt it's impossible that this girl likes you seriously but it's a bit fwd and makes me think that's all she wanted

[kheserthorpe]

For me, no. I mean I'm married now. But it drives me nuts that being cared about = no getting off. I realize this is because there are guys out there who categorize girls as 'sluts' or 'dateable', but for the rest of us, who want a relationship that is filled with sex and love, its annoying.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not saying I don't want to have sex with my bf! I just me that if I wanted sex AND a relationship I'd wait a little longer before going to that level

[Opinion Owner]

*mean

[Anonymous]

Hope you fingered her back too...and maybey. If they are so sexy

[john5246]

she was wearing jeans! I wanted to, I rubbed her nipples though ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Lucky bitch(;

[john5246]

a lot of my gfs are lucky, I'm lucky too, I seem to bring out the freak in girls lol

[Leelee47]

Im the one about turn on qs too lol

[Anonymous]

NO WAY!