I wouldn't panic too much yet - since this is your first time, it could very well be that your rectum and/or your anal sfincter got stretched out. Best thing to do is on regular basis do some exercise with it - similar to those women who just gave birth..the problem is that part of these muscles are smooth, so not under your control, but they can heal..
I'd be much more worried if you'd have anal bleeding, or itching (pruritus), or just pain after few days still. It could be internal haemorrhoids. Actually, have your friend have a look at it if he sees anything unusual.
But really, in case of doubt - go see a doctor. Seriously, they've seen MUCH worse and they're probably glad to see something they can do something about instead of patients coming in way too late with all kinds of growths, fistulas and abcesses..
Thank you for answering my question and not giving rude remarks like some of these people have. Also, it wasn't my first time with anal I've been doing it for several years now. I stopped ever since this happened.
Right, got it now - well in that case I'd more look in the direction of haemorrhoids (unless it was really rougher than usual)..either way if something is keeping your sfincter open (other than decreased tonus), you can sometimes feel it just with your finger. If so you can even push this back - but that doesn't prevent you from the need of a dr's visit.. They may prescribe scheriproct as meds, or isoniazinenitrate (something like that, to help any damage heal, but it gives head aches)
Yikes. That doesn't sound fun. Doesn't even sound fun to SAY. I'm not even going to make a wiseass remark about this one. I'm just gonna be straight with you. I recommend seeing a doctor about it, as soon as possible, because I don't think that's something you can fix on your own.
Good luck.
Surgery possibly they can do
Its embarrassing to talk about, I am scared to go to the doctor. It would help that you didn't come out wise, that is what I am not here for so I am glad you didnt. Does any one know any remedies I can do myself? Also dudeman, who requested surgery it depends on how severe my damage is if they tell me to get this done.
Cant afford surgery.
Honestly, you can't stop it. It goes away in a couple of hours all the way up to a whole day. You might want to keep a limit on the anal, the aftermath is atrocious.
Ive had this for a few months now.
Really? That's interesting did you do it often?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm not a doctor but I suspect that this is a transient problem and that if you'll start doing anal kegels and such that you'll condition your sphincter so it won't leak. As long as you're not bleeding, he wasn't too rough. You can give it a break to see if it stops or you can keep going. I'm betting it stops either way but please, if it gets worse, see a doc.
Thanks for the advice. I have an apt. next month do you think I should mention any of this to my dr? since its embarrassing or keep it to myself.
The majority of your doc's patients have anal sex and he knows it usually when he does a pelvic anyway so just blurt it out. I'm not sure I'd wait more than a week to go.
That leakage is because your anus is NOT a second vagina! Your a**hole is an EXIT only device!
Amen!
My friend experienced the same thing. She only likes to have anal sex and nothing in the vagina. After a few months her butt hole began leaking cause the muscle around the anal hole started to loosen up from all the penetration. It was embarrassing cause she would leak into her panties and it would go through to her pants.
This is a result of trying to stick things in places that only push things out. That's what you can use your vagina for not your butt hole.
The leakage stopped after a while. She was told to take warm baths every other day and no anal play for a few months to let the butt hole fix itself. if you keep having anal you will cause more damage to it and will have to wear woman diapers.
Also, did you take the whole 9 inch in your butt all the way? how far does it go in and how thick was it?
Did poop come out on the guys d***?
I will use that remedy. My anal leakage isn't as bad as your friends. It will show in my panties but won't leak through my pants. I usually wear powder so it absorbs (then you don't see any trace of leakage, although I know its there.) I took the whole 9 and I did not poop on him. He was pretty thick too.
Also, usually the leakage doesn't go directly in my panties. I only see it when I wipe.
im guessing you have to practice strengthening you butt muscles? lol
Is this like sh*t leakage?
wtf how big was his cock?!?
8-9 inches
holy shat that's fairly large. I don't know what to do about your problem, but honestly thank you for this info because I will now be abstaining from anal sex I did not know leakage was a side effect
Not only is leakage a side effect you can also prolaps your rectum and end up in diapers
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