Do guys talk about porn with their (girl) friend?

why does my guy friend tell me that he watches porn and asks if I am freaked out by that. Then asks me if I watch porn. It seems like he keeps wanting to see what my reaction is and to freak me out by making reference to porn. Do guys normally talk like this to friends?
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how can I tell if this guy is a perv?
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  • Porn doesn't freak me out or bother me so if some guy tried to get a reaction out of me they'd get bored and move on. But then, I'm not into it so its not like I'm fun to talk to about it either.

    My boyfriend and his friends trade site links, dvd's, talk about sexual escapades, or problems or ask advice etc even if I'm around. Its not all the time, but if something sexual comes up it doesn't bother me...sometimes I'm the girls point of view in the convo, most times I leave them to their guy talk.

    It could just be that this guy isn't that shy about it and is just talking openly not realizing it makes you uncomfortable. Its up to you to tell him so, tell him you're not one of the guys or something. If he keeps it up knowing how you feel, then he's being a jerk...Id just look distracted or without a workd just walk off. Make it clear you're not going to stay and take it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • sadly, in a word yes. there are times when I happen to think I am a perv for thinking about porn once in a while. but I have a buddy of mine when we hang out, he give me a copy of his latest porn acquired on-line. and he brags how he manages to get the best porn from free websites.

    I wonder how he manages to FInd time to surf that much!

    the good news is, he is always getting his PC infected with viruses and spyware. so by the time he hands me a copy, I know its clean. I am proud to say to women I never paid for porn, nor ever surfed for porn sites,

    I just leave out the part I got some crazy guy doing it for me!

    ROTFLMAO!

  • We think it's hot when girls are into porn, but we know most girls aren't.

    But I don't know why a friend would be talking about it to you, unless he's interested in you.

    • Women and girls throw around the word "perv" way too much...it seems to me that, in girlspeak, a "perv" is any man with an interest in sex that they aren't interested in. And that's just wrong... But he should stop as soon as you tell him you don't like talking about it. If you are asking, is an interest in porn perverted? Depends on the porn, but all guys look at porn. All of us.

    • Well I think it's an inappropriate topic for him to bring up since he already has a girlfriend or am I being paranoid?

    • Yeah, it's weird that he won't stop. Have you told him to stop?

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