I feel ya buddy...Not literally :P
I know what you mean, I'm really mad now that I've been circumcised. I'm on methadone (for pain, NOT addiction, not that it's anyone's f***ing business anyway but I do have a point) and methadone is well known for killing a man's libido. Now I can f***, but on top of recovering from a MAJOR spinal injury (I'm a martial artist and was one of the top amateur boxers in the state so it was like having my nut removed). On top of that I only have one testicle, though it's so big that I've yet to have a girl notice unless either I tell her before sex, or she goes down on me and starts playing with my package. Anyway, I tend to last a really long time-sounds great, right? Not so much. This idea that you need to f*** for 50 minutes straight is ridiculous. Maybe I'm just lucky, but my last two girlfriends could come three times in 10 minutes and I'd still be going! One time I 'Tapped her dry" and she got embarrassed, when it was ME who was the embarrassed party. It just really sucks having to deal with that. Plus the tip has no protection and cut guys tend to be more prone to suffering some kind of "fraying" at the edges or "crinkling." And there are plenty of girls out there that can probably attest to penis-tips that are a little "crinkled" around the edges. IF that's the right word for it, lol!
Hell even watching p*rn you can notice it a lot if you look closely enough. And that's one of the few industries where they will put make-up on their genitals or do nip-tuck surgeries on 'em!
I got circumcised two months ago. Overall, I think I like it better. There are absolutely (relatively minor) advantages either way. I'm sorry that you didn't have a choice in it. Don't feel like things have been 'ruined' - you have been given one set of advantages/disads.
wow really? why now at 36?
Msg me or chat if you want to know my reasons. I'd rather not add that kind of fuel to debates. I'm happy to discuss general advantages/disads in answers, but my own reasons are sort of separate from that.
I am sorry that you didn't get to choose and that you are unhappy with your parents' decision. But I'm sure your parents felt they were doing what was best for you, even if you don't understand why they thought circumcision was the right choice. There are both pros and cons to being circumcised and not, so you are not necessarily in a worse position. Circumcision may make hygiene easier, reduce the risk of HIV infection in heterosexual males, and reduce the risk of spreading cervical cancer to females. It also helps protect against penile cancer, urinary tract infections, and inflammation of the glans. In addition, it could make blowjobs or other activities easier for sex partners, and whether or not it does in fact decrease sensitivity or enjoyment of sex is highly debated. I understand that having some pros to being circumcised probably doesn't justify the situation for you, but I hope it helps you come to terms with being circumcised and see it in a more positive light.
If you still feel strongly that you would prefer not to be circumcised, you can consider surgery or stretching to reverse it. I don't know how safe it is though or how much of a difference it would make.
(P.S. When I mentioned hygiene, I was not implying that keeping an uncircumcised penis clean is not possible or that hygiene is any reason, on it's own, to be circumcised. However, I think it is generally considered to be somewhat easier when you are circumcised, which certainly wouldn't be a BAD thing.)
Yes a non circumcised penis is more sensitive. If you pull the skin back and try walking around in jeans it is unbearably uncomfortable. When the head develops scar tissue those types of pressures don't hurt anymore because the penis is less sensitive. Yes it's sorta hard to prove scientifically but more so it's not politically correct to prove because of how many people that are circumcised. If you lost your clitoral hood and developed scar tissue over the clit it would be the same.
What do you mean it's more politically correct to prove? The scars are apparently sensitive though. Also, even if it is slightly less sensitive that doesn't mean sex is ruined for him.
Don't hate your parents for that! I'm sure they thought they were doing what's best for you. I wouldn't say that a circumcised penis is less of a penis. Just be glad if you have a penis that works! Some men can't even reproduce! Some men have been paralyzed from th waist down and can't even feel their penis! So be thankful :)
QA, I didn't want to make you feel bad by saying this, but I'm saying it in the defense of guys who are uncut. I think uncut is very sexy. I love the way the foreskin moves over the tip like that. I've watched an uncut guy play with his **** before and it was one of the hottest things I've seen in my life. So what if for some people an uncut penis may not be the prettiest thing around! The sensations men feel because of that extra skin are supposed to be so sexy and erotic.
Uncut and cut are very nice. The important thing is the man behind the penis and what he can do with it! :D Sexual knowledge is more important than being cut or uncut. Embrace your penis. Just be glad if you're fortunate enough to create life one day :)
Uncircumcised is disgusting you should be happy, your parents did you a favor not only is uncircumcised unsightly but its harder to keep clean.
Uh no, not really, lol. Anyone who practices basic hygeine should have absolutely no trouble keeping their uncut penis in perfectly clean condition. Anyone who has foreskin knows that it's part of their showering routine since they were kids, just like cleaning every other part of the body, to clean under the foreskin. If your experience says otherwise, you've clearly been with some gross dudes who don't shower.
Have you ever been with a man who had an uncircumcised penis? Honestly. If you did you wouldn't have such a childish idea about what is NATURALLY supposed to be there.
Um actually yes, I'm not saying people don't keep it clean, I'm saying its more difficult cus of the excess skin. Of course people clean it, I wasn't saying they don't. Many people who have their kids circumcised besides those who do it for religious reasons do it for hygenical pusposes. Also I'm allowed to have my preferences just as you have yours, don't call me childish for liking certain things, I will admit I should not have said disgusting though, I just don't prefer them
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A buddy of mine chose to be circumcised as an adult because sex was too painful uncut for him. He is much happier cut. Sorry you didn't get to be part of the decision, but I think you are overreacting.
how was it painful for him with a foreskin? I would think it would feel better.
Painful enough to go see a doctor and get cut as an adult!
but what about the foreskin was causing him pain I meant?
Actually, I think I hate your parents for doing it, too. Otherwise, you wouldn't be whining here about your Freudian issues.
are you circumcised?
The same number of nerves develop and connect as you grow up so you aren't missing anything.
If it were a matter of how much skin area you have, people with bigger d***s would feel more pleasure, which they don't.
stop being a little bitch maybe? if your gonna whine that much mayeb they should of gone ahead and cut off the whole penise and testicals and call you Sally. Just a thought
I personally think that circumcised looks much better than uncircumcised so thank them!
i was pissed off too when I found out, now I got less d*** and a fat scar
i have heard my family talking about circumsision in adulthood and the forskin CAN get in the way. my grandad said quote "I COULD FEEL EVERYTHING AFTERWARDS" the forskin only keeps it moist, and while the nervous-system is hypersensitive in infancy its not fully formed. so, do what i just started, take olive oil mixed with another oil that smells nice and apply once a day, i just started and it seems to feel better but individual biology is a factor
Gosh, be glad they did you! My parents didn't do me, which I very much regret. I had many problems with it and I still dislike it.
care to explain?
As a kid, I had trouble with my foreskin. Many embarrassing situations with parents and doctors followed but I wasn't circumcised. As a teenager, I couldn't have sex for some time because the head of my penis was oversensitive and it hurt. Having had two gfs from all-circ-families also wasn't helpful. Now my foreskin is quite short so it looks like a "half" foreskin. I don't use it anymore. For hygiene, I have to wash my penis every time before being with a girl.
wow sex actually hurts you? : /
ew uncircumcised are so gross
no, they're not. don't be such a rude bitch.
ew the clitoris is gross, why don't we chop that off because that's a sort of female circumcision?
Its not like she's tried it. I'm sure your a kid
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