How to tell my girlfriend I want her to scratch me during sex?

[Anonymous]

Scratching during sex really turns me on. How to tell her? Girls, is it weird that scratching turns me on?

[Anonymous]

It's not weird at all. My ex loved that. Here's how he let me know: we were making out, and I got really into it and ran my nails up his back. He said, "I'm not sure how you knew that turns me on so much, but wow. I love nails on my back. It's so sexy." He would point things out when he loved them and compliment me when I did them, and that's how I knew what he liked. Or you could just say, "It would be so hot if you'd scratch my back." Don't give directions in a negative way...just say that it would be hot if you...

We can't read minds, so tell us what you like. :)

[Regena]

How hard do you like it? like light graze? Or hard where it stings? I love scratching I find it sexy but my boyfriend doesn't like it only, lightly like goosebumps. I think you should tell her discretely like as er about what turns her on or what she fantasizes about then let her know you find scratching sexy if she is into you she will want to turn you on and will most likely be up for it.

have fun ;)

[Anonymous]

hmmm aside from saying it which could sound alittle awkward I can understand why you wouldn't want to...do it to her, most of the time guys don't have long fingernails anyway so you can't hurt her but just kinda dig your finger tips into her and be alittle rougher and she'll probably reciprocate

[Anonymous]

Interestingly, there are tons of things I want my wife to do that she won't, but that one, I get like 50% of the time if I don't pin her.

[Ugliness]

It's been done. Just tell her.

I've requested lots of disgustingly kinky things. Scratching is minor.

[leximarie]

You mean like scrath marks down your back?

[KikiKerasine]

I love scratching. Usually the guys I'm w/don't say anything because I'mma scratcher in general and the way they react when they like it makes it better for me :]

[Minajme123]

Tell her you like it; my boyfriend loves it when I scratch on his back. Don't be weird of course but just say something if she does it and I'm sure she'll do it more

[Christyd87]

Just tell her you like it a little rough. Or, if she has done it before, bring that up and tell her you liked it. If she ever does it, get a little loud or tell her you like it afterward.

[Anonymous]

That is so hot. Just tell her to do it. Whisper it into her ear while you two are having sex or during foreplay.