I had sex with my boyfriend's brother.

I had sex with my boyfriends twin brother about a week ago I was drunk and that really doesn't make it ok I'm not sure I want to tell my boyfriend I know he will get mad and his brother won't tell him so should I tell him or just forget about it?
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  • I wouldn't tell him if it was a one time stupid thing. but you have to make sure it never ever happens again. I think it would hurt your relationship and the brothers relationship. both you and his brother have to live with what you done. sometimes people wanna tell so they can feel better about things...about being honest. but I don't know if it like is really good or not. cheating is wrong. always. however it something stupid happens. I dunno. maybe its not best to tell. if it is going to come out, then I would guess it would be better to tell him right away. but if you and his bro are not going to ever tell. then I wouldn't say anything.

  • You have to tell him, you did wrong and you have to fess up to it. Trying to cover it will only make things worse. His brother will probably end up telling him at some point and then he will definitely want nothing to do with you.

    I personally think honesty is the best policy, I know that I couldn't live with myself if I did something like that so will you actually be able to lie to him everyday.

    Its gonna be an awful feeling but you should treat others how you want to be treated, wouldn't you want the same respect from a guy you're dating to at least be honest with you?

  • BITCH!!! tell him!!! I did the exact same thing and being that they’re brothers, twins at that, THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT !! It’s best if he hears it from you. in my case the twin snitched and now my boyfriend hates me. i’m sure he’ll hate you regardless but he’ll be more likely to get over it by you speaking up and telling him the truth.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The fact that your haven't told him and are asking if you should tell him,

    means your not sorry for what you did and that you are fine being unfaithful to him.

    Now think what if the roles are reversed would you forgive him?

    Would you want him to tell you or would you like to learn about it from someone else?

  • Tell him. If he leaves you he leaves you. You just have to hope that things will work out. If you don't tell him and he finds out down the road the hard way...then it won't end for you as well by any means. Bite the bullet now.

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  • Just say because you were drunk you got confused and thought it was him

  • I know this may sound wrong, but I seriously just wouldn't bring it up. It's not like intentionally did it. Yes it was wrong, but I think you should just put it behind you.

    • Its not like she did it intentionally? thats FUNNEH so if I kill someone while I'm drunk, I'm off the hook? SWEET!

    • Cool, unlike murder, it could be argued here that if no one tells, no one gets hurt.

    • Yea I wouldn't tell him either. Make sure his brother doesn't bring it up either, and make it clear to him it was a huge mistake make sure you two are on the same page. it was wrong to do but people make mistakes, but if you are not in love with the guy and just dating I would tell him b.c it will hurt him way more if time goes on he falls in love and finds out..idk if this makes sense lol

  • the one real thing to do is to communicate with him and if you thinks he's the 'one' then I don't think he'll want to break up with you but def be mad at you

  • I wouldn't bring it up. He is not going to be understanding.

    Oh, btw, are they identical? Were you confused about which one you were with?

    • Hahahaha as if oyu asked that haha

    • Hey, I was giving her an easy excuse!