How easily can a guy control his erection?
If a guy and a girl are making out, can the guy stop himself from getting an erection? How about if there's dry humping as well? Can the guy control...
Thanks everyone for your comments, its just something that I always wondered.
Most Helpful Guy
It totally happens on it's own and is controlled by the mind. So if a guy can totally get his mind on something totally stupid while he was making our or humping it might not occur. But I don't think most guys have that much mind control. I know I don't. haha!
What Guys Said 11
no, unless he's thinking
about dead kitties and other
things that might turn him off
Not really, nearly impossible to be honest.
It depends how old he is. the younger the guy, the harder the control. also, I think you have to be hard to dry hump.
An erection is sometimes possible to control and sometimes not. Getting an erection is pretty easy. You just need to think about girls and it will come. But sometimes it comes when you're not expecting it and for absolutely no reason. Stopping an erection is the more difficult part. You have to think unsexy thoughts. But it's not as simple as that, the guy REALLY has to concentrate on those thoughts, which is very difficult when there's an attractive girl around.
Not during the act, no matter what. Should they stop making out or dry humping and the male focuses on something else, consciously/subconsciously, then his excitement diminishes.
That is the extent of our control
Mind you, if the act is with someone the male does not find attractive, there may not be one there (a hard on) to begin with ;)
its just there...its weird I can be in a really intense situation with a girl I'm not completely in to and I feel like I have control...but if its with a girl I'm really excited about its there before I would ever want it...kind of annoying
Control it? Why? You're making out so that's his hotness thermometer. It means he's feeling good because of you.
Nope. That fella has got a mind of his own.
Guys don't have control over erections... when will girls understand this?
No, not very well at all. It is hard to get one at will, and hard to prevent one at will. Maybe I sould have said "difficult" and not "hard"...
What Girls Said 1
It's probably a lot easier to control with practice. I wouldn't know as I'm a girl, but I would say that to some degree it is kind of uncontrollable. There are things you can do to maybe make it go away faster, or hold it off for a while, but I don't think you can completely stop it from happening. Idk, I could be wrong.
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