I want him to remove his Prince Albert?

[Anonymous]

MY boyfriend of 2 years has a prince Albert (boys…cringe lol) Well, I have read that this creates extra sensitivity for Men and Women alike. I honestly can’t tell the difference…for me the sex is great but I don’t think the piercing plays that BIG of a part in it scenario…. The things that as of recently sex has become a bit painful…. On Sunday we had sex and it was a bit rough that when I went to urinate I was bleeding…and no it wasn’t that time of the month…now I'm in such pain that it hurts to even sit…I don’t know how to ask him to take it off. .. and I'm cringing at the fact about doing it again…and he tends to be a bit overly sexual so avoiding sex with him will be hard…. I'm sure he went through a great deal of pain to get it done so I don’t know how he would feel about that and if this thing being removed will cause him to be less sensitive to sex…. please advice on this would be great.

[heatherlu]

Rough sex can make a woman bleed - it happens, as does like a burning sensation when you urinate.

Is this just a one off? I mean, if it's been fine for 2 years, or however long you've been having sex in these 2 years you've been together; then I don't see the deal with the piercing. Sometimes people get a bit carried away sexually and you don't notice in the heat of the moment.

If it's becoming a regular occurring - maybe just ask him to tone it down a bit. It sounds like normal symptoms of any woman after rough, hard sex - so it's probably to do with that more than the piercing itself - although I guess that adds to it a bit.

My point is - as long as the sex isn't always like that - and you tell him to tone it down for a bit to let your body repair itself, then I don't see why he should need to remove the piercing. Or at least try that before asking him to remove it.

[Asker]

Yea sometimes it happens but its never painful like this...I gues you do make a good point. I always tend to just grieve alone...I don't really bother him with my womanly issues or any pains I might have but this I do want to voice my opinion on...thanks for the great advice

[saphirasilverwings]

If sex is painful for you and causing you to bleed, that's a problem you should not be forced to put up with. It's nice that you are respecting the fact that he enjoys his piercing, but his desire to have a piece of metal stuck through his penis should not take priority over your well being. I would suggest simply letting him know that the piercing is causing some severe discomfort and even damage for you, and he needs to take it out before you have sex again. I think it's reasonable to expect him to be understanding and cooperative.

[saphirasilverwings]

If you think the roughness of the sex had something to do with it, though, maybe you can ask him to take it out only when things might get rough and then he can leave it in the rest of the time.

[pepper01]

i have a vertical clitoral hood piercing that my guy hates. what you can do is remove it while you are having sex than he can put it back in after you both are done. he gets to keep the piercing and you won't get hurt during sex so you both win :)

good luck

[Asker]

Ouch...that sound painful! But your right he could remove it...I wonder if he wouldso that ? I hope because it can cause me to become irritated down there about 50% of the time

[rockingpianoman]

this was my face when I googled prince albert : link

brr , I would ask him to get rid of it

juk... can't think about it , the incredible pain...

[Asker]

Hahahaha that's cute! Yeah I know I want him to but I know hell be hesitant to do it.

[moloz]

Oh god tattoo piercing!

[rockingpianoman]

i would rather tattoo that face of my link on my d*** than have a piercing trough it lol

[moloz]

I meant penis, why did I write tattoo, sorry. I'm hangover.

[Asker]

Hahahaha I get what you meant to say :)

[l-hedoniste]

You can ask, but expect him to refuse; a Prince Albert is no small commitment.

[irykiryk]

One thing to never do in life: Get a prince alberts piercing.

Who was this prince albert anyway and why are penis piercings named after him.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's the type of jewellery he wears in it? Does he wear a ring? There's a type of jewellery for a PA called a "princes wand" and it basically has a small metal ball where the piercing is and another at the end of his penis. Might be less irritating than a ring.

[Anonymous]

tell him it's gross and to take it out.

[Anonymous]

What a smart thing to do - drive a spear through your shlong.

Just tell him you don't want a threesome. Prince Albert is no longer invited