Is having a flat butt a huge deal? Would you not date a girl with a flat butt?

[Anonymous]

I hear people online making a huge deal of it. Is it really that big of a deal? I actually love my ass, but I know its flat. And I think its more noticeable because I'm part black and people just expect me to have a big ass. You can give your honest opinions, I don't care. I'm curious.

[peace-love-couture]

Pahahaha, no, it isn't. For every ass there's some dude out there who will adore it.

I think it depends on the culture. Since the people on this site tend to be "pro fat/chubby" they tend to make a big deal out of small or flat asses.

In reality, a lot of dudes are willing to overlook a flat ass. Not all guys are even ass guys.

Asians for instance, there's like a billion of them and they tend to have flat asses but their asses are proportional.

In the white culture, a flat ass/small ass is generally desired by males and females

By blacks(since you mention you're part black) and latinos you might be made fun of but generally not around white folks. you really shouldn't be ridiculed by anyone tbh

[IHateMeganFox]

Lol! Again I don't know how it is down in Texas but here in Wisconsin (where the majority is white) they don't desire flat butts.

[peace-love-couture]

I think sir mix a lot pretty much summed up the caucasian attitude towards big butts. White girls are generally the ones asking "does this make my butt look big omg" and the ones who desire to be a size 0. Chances are at a size 0 one is lacking in the ass department *coughpancakeasscough*

[IHateMeganFox]

That was the 90's and also he lived in Cali or Ny or whatever. Here in WI (at least where I live) the white dudes drool over big voluptuous asses, not all but they're always saying oh that chick has a nice ass and the chick usually has a big one or if it's not big then it's a bubble butt.

[peace-love-couture]

But it's not as if NO guy has a preference for a flat ass. Plenty do. I see girls with flat asses who have bf's or husbands all of the time. Some guys like sh*t like that the same way some dudes like fat asses. Both extremes are nasty looking but hey, to each their own

[IHateMeganFox]

Well obviously. But also in some situations the guy might of just overlooked the ass not necessarily liked it and grew to like it because he loved her. But you are correct people have their preferences although I personally have never met a guy who likes flat butts.

[Asker]

yeah black guys comment on my butt all the time. lol latinos not so much. its funny sometimes. I have to make a joke out of it because I can't take it seriously. somehow I can definitely believe that white guys in WI would love big asses...actually I think a lot of white guys like big butts, but just aren't as vocal about it. Anyway I live in NY. the only downside is that the white guys who like black girls want the whole stereotypical package and I don't fit that image. but I deal.

[IHateMeganFox]

Hmmm... that's stupid. What about the black guys what do they say?

[IHateMeganFox]

And the dudes are vocal about asses here. They like bubble butts and big butts (not all but a lot) Surely if the dudes around here were into my flat assness I wouldn't have a problem with my buttocks but I don't like my butt so obviously it's because I've always known guys to like big ones... if you get what I'm saying? haha.

[krystal20]

I am sorry, but I have to disagree with you IHateMeganFox, as much guys I have seen like flat booties, I really can't say they like only fat butts. You know you can be fat and still have a flat butt. Some people look at their stomach fat and called that butt, when really it is just gut. I have seen plenty of men looking at women butts and calling something that they are not making it to seem like that particularly chick got it going on. When really they just like that particular woman and don't

[krystal20]

want to admit that certain girl is built weird, but sense they like the weirdness, they will try to lie to themselves making them to believe like she does have it back there. For example, this guy would check women out in the back and called them big butts, when really just flat and wide or just thighs and none at all. The illusion they are telling themselves, is where the attraction lies at. Some men are very delusional when they hit on women and not really in touch into reality of things. Just

[krystal20]

my take on that, because the women don't be all that good looking; but some do make it out to be and it's funny, because these women don't be hot at all. Now I know people say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but if a lot of people can see flava flav is ugly or paris hilton is not all that. I know that a lot of people can see the same thing on what attraction is all about. Flat booties are still in as well as the fake butts too. If it's not fake, its flat or fat lol.

[kateclay]

@krystal20 I'm not understanding what you said, you seem to contradict yourself. First you made a statement that a certain woman can have a weird built, and you gave an example of a weird built of someone having a flat wide butt, then turned around and said "flat butts are still in". So what are you trying to say? Are you saying flat butts are attractive or unattractive?

[Anonymous]

Hey you order check out the YouTube video Hooters chick can hit video and she is black but faked and have a flat butt and they calling this chick hot and I don't know why. most guys lies on what they like about a woman. To me they like fake women more rather you have a big butt or not. Lol

[saltycheeks]

LMAO this question so describes me except I'm full black. I have an ass but its reeeeally tiny lol

thank god I have big boobs aha. I know I'm not really answering your question but just here to say I feel your pain lmao

[Asker]

we need like a group or something where flat butted black girls can come together and share our stories lol

[shacodraco]

thats all about perspective to be honest because what some guys (mostly black dudes) would call a nice ass I would call a fat ass. not having a nice ass is not a deal breaker for me. I think I actually like nice legs better than a nice ass :)

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

what exactly is a fat ass? Like one that's significantly bigger than the girl's body? I've been told I have a fat ass :(

[peace-love-couture]

Unless you're trying to impress the dudes on here I wouldn't really worry about his comment.

[shacodraco]

@sweet yeah like if a girls ass sticks out because its so big. I don't think you have a fat ass from what I saw in your profile pics @evangelina no idea what you're talking about

[peace-love-couture]

I'm talking to her, not you obviously

[shacodraco]

oh I see now. thought you were talking to the QA

[MikeMcCarrion]

Big boobs do not make up for lack of booty. And nice booty does not mean fat booty. But booty can stand on it's own without boobs to match and that is better than boobs with no booty. Neither one is good if they are fake.

[evangelista]

I think that if a guy likes you he will never see when its a flat or fat ass...So it doesn't matter

[krystal20]

I agree with this, many men today will pretend that girl is physically hot, because they like that particular girl in the aspects of things. Now this is where men can be hypocritical, the girl that they don't like, they would down her for having it, but don't down the girl that they like; that actually has the same-thing; instead they uplift her. For example praising a lighter skin girl for wearing weave, since, they like that particular girl.but a not a darker skinned girl for wearing it.

[Phoenix1991]

don't care really, the face is where it matters in my opinion

[IHateMeganFox]

I have a flat ass... I've always hated it. I once had a black man tell me I had the weirdest ass he's ever seen and my 11 year old sister makes fun of me. But it runs in my fam so oh well.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I don't care about it tbh. If I like her, I'll be happy to date her. Most guys won't care. Hell, flat can be sexy if it matches your body well.

[taster]

Not into big butts...pretty sure I would be fine yours...(:

[G_GTom]

Curvy butts and thighs are some of the most attractive parts of a women. I guess if I met the perfect women, I could go without.

[CasaNorba]

well, I'm a man (not a dog) so I need my extra meat. so is important to me, no offense

[Asker]

haha none taken

[Love2Ball]

Theres plenty of ways to make up for it..

[Xx_DRE_xX]

B.

[Alpha93]

A. I need at least some booty meat.

[Asker]

haha that term "booty meat" sounds weird.

[CT_CD]

I would never date a girl with a flat butt

[Lj236]

It doesn't matter to me if they have a flat butt. It's still cute to me lol. If anything having too big of a but is a problem with me but hardly

[Anonymous]

@op I don't believe most men have a preference for a flat ass. My boyfriend as well as other men have confined in me being "ass men". After discovering this I ask, why they are with a girl who doesn't have a big and/or round ass. The response Is always, " There are girls I want to fuxk and there are girls I can date. Usually the two don't cross paths."

[Anonymous]

It's fine if she makes up for it up top!

[Anonymous]

I don't think guys should care if you have a flat ass, I would rather go out with a guy who likes me for who I am and my personality, So guys aren't worth it if the size of your ass is the only thing that matters.