I was watching a plastic surgery show, are small boobs REALLY that bad?

[Anonymous]

In my country there is a plastic surgery show in which several people present their "stories" to a panel of "judges" (a plastic surgeon among them), and then one of them is chosen and they win all the surgery they want. Right now they were showing a girl who was absolutely stunning. Gorgeous face, thin, curvy body, but small boobs. And her boyfriend was like "yeah, I can imagine her looking really hot afterward, and I want to try those boobs immediately". And she was absolutely stunning! There was another girl who worked as a high fashion model (so also gorgeous) and she also wanted big boobs, despite the fact she wouldn't be able to work as a high fashion model anymore. One male friend of her said that "well, she's pretty but yeah, men generally like more voluptuous women so it'll be a good change for her". And the general idea of these women was that small boobs equal unfeminine. And also the plastic surgeon "evaluated" each contestant and he said things like "yeah, you certainly lack volume in the chest area" (as if it were a disease!). Are small boobs really that bad? I have small boobs and I admit I've always felt insecure about them but I thought men preferred natural boobs? I'm not even gorgeous like the girls on the show, am I screwed? Would every guy prefer I get implants? I hate this shallow society =(

[IHateMeganFox]

I find these big boob/small boobs questions interesting. Please please please be happy that you have small boobs. If I could remake myself I would have smaller boobs. When you have big boobs dudes are always talking about sex, trying to f*** you, they talk about them all of the time. Half the time, no scratch that most of the time I think do they like me or my boobs? (I've gotten really well at figuring this one out but sometimes a few bastards slip through and I don't realize until later.) Dudes grab them in public places, they throw things down your shirt. After awhile you find yourself feeling like a sex object. Men don't understand it and I'm sure even if they did they wouldn't think it's even a big deal, and sometimes it is nice but it also sucks at times too. I rarely hear guys saying small boobs are disgusting, I actually hear them saying big boobs are disgusting more. Its like they're either loved or hated at least with small boobs guys overlook them but it seems with big ones if the guy doesn't like big boobs then you're automatically unattractive but if they do like them they just want to f***. But with small boobs if you have an ass, pretty face etc. then it's all good.

Sorry about this little rampage I went on, I'm just trying to stress to you the fact that you just don't want big boobs. Be happy you don't that's all I'm saying. And you have a boyfriend so obviously he doesn't care that your boobs are small.

[Asker]

You said something interesting... "at least with small boobs guys overlook them", well that's a problem for me. I like it when guys play with or lick my breasts (sorry if tmi). But many of them, like you said, overlook them... I even like it if I see them looking. But they just ignore them. And I'm sure being treated as a sex object all the time must suck. But when you've been called "pancakes" or have been told things that make you feel unsexy, well... I guess both sides have cons. But thanks.

[IHateMeganFox]

I've been made fun of for my ass and other aspects as well. If a dude isn't playing with your t*ts the way you like then you tell him. By overlook I don't mean in the bedroom I mean in general. I'm sorry if I'm sounding like a bitch but it really annoys me when girls with small boobs complain when if you look around the majority have smaller boobs and pretty much everyone gets a boyfriend/husband. Small boobs are not that big of a deal and these kinds of questions make big titted girls feel

[IHateMeganFox]

sh*tty because then there are guys who say big boobs are gross and disgusting. I once ran into a question like this (minus the plastic surgery) where there were like 100 answers from guys and the majority said they like small boobs and that big boobs are gross or a turn off.. .think about how that felt lol. I mean I'm really not trying to sound mean but it's just all UGH! you know?

[Asker]

Not to be a bitch myself, but busty women get plenty of social validation. No one would say Scarlett Johanson's boobs are gross, but I've heard people say Keira Knightley looks like a prepubescent boy. Honestly, a lot of women may have small breasts and get bfs/husbands, but so what? That doesn't mean small breasts are better or even attractive... like I mentoned in the PS show some guys were really critical of their gfs' small boobs. I honestly can't see how busty girls feel unattractive...

[Asker]

... because of these sorts of questions if the general knowledge is that big breasts are better. You said so yourself, you get plenty of attention, and random guys grab your breasts. That may be awful, but I get none of that treatment, you know why? Because small breasts are NOT MORE ATTRACTIVE. I've been called really hurtful names. I feel like guys settle for my body type, that they'd actually prefer someone curvier in bed. That's awful too.

[IHateMeganFox]

Lol! Scarlett Johansons's boobs are medium. They are a C cup. Big boobs are D and up. I have DDD's THAT is big. If scarlett johansons boobs were actually big then there might be a different view of her. Who knows. And Keira Knightley is flat, there is a difference between small and flat. And big boobs don't factor in a womans attractiveness there is face, ass, legs etc.

[Asker]

The only place where I've seen guys who say big boobs are gross is here, actually, they're probably lying, or maybe they are women passing as men. But honestly I've never met a guy in my life, in real person, who thinks big boobs are gross. None. Yet I've been told I look unfeminine. Why should I tolerate such treatment over something I didn't choose? If I chose to look manly through hair or clothes, fine, but I look really girly. Not saying you have it easier but no one says big boobs are gross

[Asker]

Because big boobs are not gross. I have an almost flat chest, less than a handful anyway. Anyway... even girls with perfect faces, asses and legs feel insecure over their small boobs or have douchey boyfriends who make them feel bad about it. And I look pretty average... my ass is not great, neither are my legs, nor my face. But anyway, I guess I'll just have to settle for someone who settles for me. Many, many men settle. Never forget that.

[IHateMeganFox]

Not many people say small boobs are gross either. Honestly why do you feel that your body is that important? As long as you are fit and thin and assuming you have an ass most guys wouldn't complain. And I'm sure you're pretty, I would rather guys not asking me to f*** them, I would rather them not grab at me like a f***ing animal. You have a boyfriend, I do not. That must say something doesn't it?

[Asker]

Oh, and by the way I don't have a boyfriend, my ex, however, told me my t*ts were too small. But that he loved me for me, bleh. I don't want just to be loved for who I am... I want to be desired sexually, for all my assets. Sometimes I wish some random guy would grab my t*ts or look at my chest instead of my cleavage. Honestly.

[IHateMeganFox]

I sincerely doubt a man is going to get on his girls ass about her boobs. If that's the case I would break the hell up with him. If any guy I was dating tried to make me feel bad about myself I do not need him around, his ass will be kicked to the curb.

[IHateMeganFox]

ooops I read that wrong I thought you said something about your boyfriend but it was one of the girls in the shows boyfriend sorry. Anyway why would you want to be treated like a sex object? It f***ing sucks. At least you know if a guy likes you he likes you for YOU! When a guy talks to me, compliments me, or asks me out I always think "Is he after my boobs or does he genuinely like me?" This is why I've grown to hate compliments and male attention in general it's actually bad me feel horrible.

[IHateMeganFox]

It's made me feel horrible about myself. You would probably think all these compliments are great, and you would probably like to be complimented on your boobs but when guys say to me "you have nice t*ts." It makes me cringe and makes me feel disgusting.

[peace-love-couture]

No

Men hate big boobs, especially when they're fake. big boobs have big salami nipples and will sag by the time the girl is 30. They get in the way during sex and are sloppy.

Fake boobs have to be replaced every...10-20 years or so, don't quote me on that though. it's what I saw on that brazilian doctor...dr.90210 or whatever the show was called on E!

[Asker]

Um, are you being sarcastic? Because men on the show I watched were clear that big boobs are better, no matter how beautiful the girl they're with is, they still said they preferred big boobs, etc. So don't be sarcastic when you know the truth is men prefer big boobs, especially natural ones.

[peace-love-couture]

If you know the answer why are you asking this?

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And according to guys on here, big boobs are bad and disgusting. So no, I'm not being sarcastic.

[Asker]

But if that were true, there would be no Playboy, and well, no breast implants. Whatever.

[peace-love-couture]

No one looks at Playboy anymore other than 80 year old guys and plenty of girls get implants for themselves. So guys aren't supposed to like big boobs period? Am I right? They're ONLY suppose to like small boobs? That's a great thought, maybe then these ridiculous "omg it's the end of the world cause my boobs are small" questions would stop being asked 100x a day

[Asker]

Plus, I assume you have big boobs. Seeing a doctor, someone who actually went to university to get a medical degree talk about small boobs as if they were an abnormality that has to be corrected... well, it just feels awful. I don't think you know how that feels. I was just asking to know. You didn't need to be so rude, that's all. You just don't get it.

[Asker]

I never said men are not supposed to like big boobs, I just want to know if small breasts are as bad as society says they are. I've never EVER seen a guy say "well yeah, men actually like flat women"... I just wish they liked small breasts as much as they like big ones or that the media a plastic surgeons weren't so stupid to imply that small boobs are inferior.

[peace-love-couture]

No, I do get it because I plan on getting surgery myself, not for the breast size itself but on my breasts, I plan on getting surgery. And it's because I've learned to not like my boobs, in fact I hate them. I can't stand looking in the mirror at them. I don't like them. So I get you. But this question is asked a million f***ing times a day.

[Asker]

So just because I have a size issue my problem is different than yours? If you've not been called "Pancakes" or total strangers haven't mocked you over size (which is something I clearly didn't choose), well, I guess you're entitled to your opinion. I have had boyfriends tell me I'm too small for their liking. Do you know how that feels? I hate my t*ts too, dammit. So what if this question is asked "a million times a day" there's a reason for that don't you think?

[cjwright79]

I find many things contemptible about young Anglo males, and near the top of the list is their fondness for enormous breasts. Gross.

[peace-love-couture]

Because it's by the same circle of morons just as the penis size questions are by the same person who jumps from account to account. I feel like girls say sh*t like "i've had bfs say they don't like my small breasts" just to prove a point cause I hang out with mostly dudes and NONE of them, even the a**holes, say sh*t like that to girls. NONE. And no, but I'm not gonna ask about it a million times a day. Either get the surgery or move the f*** on.

[Asker]

Well, those things are usually said in intimate moments, of course no a-hole, no matter how big an a-hole he is, is going to tell that publibly to his girlfriend. I was told that, in bed, after sex. Followed by the typical "But I love you for you" crap. True story. If you think I make it up, too bad. I assume you'r egetting a lift or something, which is not looked down upon like implants are... but whatever, let's just leave it at this.

[peace-love-couture]

Uh no, I plan on getting an areola reduction and a possible nipple reduction. but fine. bye.

[Asker]

Still, that's not something as "taboo" as implants are. You're not putting foreign objects inside you. Well good luck with that. FYI, many men like big areolas.

[peace-love-couture]

Mmm, ever heard of 'salami nipples' or 'pancake nipples' or 'bologna nipples?' Yeah, not so much. But I can either change what I dislike or continue complaining. I'll change it, cause complaining won't get me anywhere. Millions of women with small boobs manage to find guys who like their boobs. Let's not play the boob blame game

[Asker]

Ok. You win. Only thing is I have yet to find a guy who honestly prefers small boobs to large ones. That'd be nice for me. Not because I think big boobs shouldn't be liked. But because I've been made to feel inadequate, and I'd like to be with someone who genuinely thinks an A cup is better than a D cup. But whatever. Like I said, good luck with your surgery, I'll try to find that rare, mythological man who prefers small breasts. Ciao!

[Arwens-Fire]

No,smal boobs are not bad.Our society is the problem.

[Red_Arrow]

I have always preferred small boobs. I have been with some women who were almost flat. Basically mostly nipple. But I never overlooked their breasts. Gave them every bit of attention I ever gave larger breasts, and often even more. I appreciate most sizes (some extremely large are just too large), so I am not hating on big. I just think that what you have described is very sexy.

[Belgie]

Small boobs are fine. I prefer them, personally.

But here's the thing. If a friend of mine was insistent on getting implants, because of her own problems in self-image or to make herself feel better, and there was nothing I could do to change her mind, then I'd lie through my teeth to be supportive.

You might have been seeing something like that on TV.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Small boobs are elegant

[Asker]

But this is from a female point of view... I just feel that maybe they are unattractive, with all the crap men said in that show... that's what I wonder, I agree they are very elegant, but what if they're unattractive to guys? I don't want a d-bag boyfriend like the one the girl on TV had, who thought she'd be hot with implants.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Only douche bag guys think that. Look at all the dudes on here who don't care. Boobs are boobs. That show only highlights superficial aspects, that's all. Some people are shallow like that. For the most part - men don't honestly care. If your pretty, good personality, you'll find a man who fully accepts you - whether your an A cup or DD

[Lj236]

Agreed :)

[CuriousEddie]

Nice phrasing!

[TurbulentDan12]

It's no big deal at all to me. I much prefer a girl with small boobs as long as she has a decent body than the fake boob look with the same body. Implants just don't seem worth it in my eyes.

[l-hedoniste]

You realize, don't you, that big-boob propaganda exists for the sole purpose of enriching plastic surgeons, nothing else. Your insecurity is their Ferrari payment--don't fall for the racket.

[cjwright79]

No, they aren't. At all. It's rather horrifying to think that women are willing to undergo surgery for this issue.

[kheserthorpe]

I prefer smaller breasts, typically. Some guys like bigger.

[CuriousEddie]

I prefer smaller breasts... I think they look great, and I think that guy on the show was an idiot.

[Mr_Solo_Dolo]

No they aren't. I wouldn't have a problem with a girl with A or B cups.

[CasaNorba]

no, their really not. but they are more beneficial to start a family

[IHateMeganFox]

lol.

[CasaNorba]

lol! I always say that and girls seem to love when I bring it up... but am I right or wrong?

[IHateMeganFox]

Oh by that I thought you meant small t*ts are beneficial for some reason.

[CasaNorba]

i met the big ones are since they hold more milk

[Asker]

That's a lie, you know...

[IHateMeganFox]

Yeah that's not true at all.

[Ezmotts]

Nope, they are fine.

[Blaxican619]

Natural small is way better then fake huge. Don't worry about anything

[DontEvenUnderstand]

Nah its just media feeding you bullshit like telling men they need 10 inch penises to please a girl dont listen to it.

[sexcrazy12]

small boobs are as good as the bigger ones if not better sometimes

[hornyoldguy]

i like small boobs

[Anonymous]

I dunno, I like my small boobs. Haters gon' hate. I think all boobs are pretty great, but smaller ones especially. And many guys like them as well.

[taster]

Yes we do! ...(:

[Anonymous]

i have small boobs. 30B. and I've learned to live with them and love them