Dirty things to say to lead to sex/blowjob, etc.

soo I'm going to hang out with this girl I go to school with in a couple days and I'm pretty sure she's into me and think things could go far..ish, what are some things I can hint to lead to sexual tension and all that
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for the record is not just someone I met, I've hung out with her multiple times and known for about 6 months
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  • Well, start by kissing/making out, not just right into bumping uglies, haha. I think that's a better way to start than saying something. Just find excuses to touch her and see what her reaction is (not like, grabbing her ass or anything, but maybe hugging or touching her leg or something). Like, it should happen naturally. Honestly, if I just started hanging out with a guy and he started saying all these sexual things, even if I liked him, I'd be freaked out.

    • Ohh, OK. Sounds like a situation I had with a guy before. He just did pretty much what I recommended to you, he'd always hug me and he put his hand on my leg and stuff, first we kissed, and then we went further.

  • I'd personally find it a bit creepy if a guy I think I might b interested in started talkig dirty to me tbh lol I guess it depends on your relationship with her. Why don't you try suggestive body language like putting your hand on her inner thigh or back and run the tips of your fingers up and down? And bringing your face closer to hers almost Leaning in to kiss her?

    • she might find that creepy anyways.. I don't know what kind of acquaintance they have. altho, no point pretending he's not after sex.

  • What is your definition, of going far?

    Why don't you go old school... get to know her, see where things go.. between the two of you..not in your head. not saying pretend you don't want sex.. I'm just saying why don't you get to know her to see if she wants that too.. instead of plotting.

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  • Sexual tension is the build up to the sex and the blowjob, you don't say things that lead to sexual tension it's just supposed to happen naturally. To get her horny and take the sexual tension into sexual activity you could say things like- "blow me or I'll take you home", you know work it.

    • Are you serious with that suggestion? Because if a guy said "blow me or I'll take you home" to me, I'd pick the ride home.

    • In fact, I'd find my own way home, now that you mention it.

    • Clearly sarcasm

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  • I don't think there's any magic thing that will put the idea in her mind. But some people DO think there's such a magic thing. If you want to believe, you should look up neurolinguistic programming. But I think its probably a pile of BS

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  • I think it needs to happen naturally. I would avoid trying to rush things, because it could make her uncomfortable.

    • agreed.

  • How many licks does it take to get to the centre of a Tootsie Pop?

    https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=yzhB0gF5GTI&feature=related
  • um okay. I hope this girl makes a pass on your ass. how are you thinking about a blow job already and you barely know her!

    gross!

    How about you treat her with respect first? You know, she is a actual human being not an outlet for you lustful, perverted sexual fantasies.

    a**hole...

    • Funny thing is on the update he clearly stated he has known her for along time and has hung out with her multiple times